how to be happy?

Answer 1

Hi, Wonderful,
"Happiness" is a state of mind.... Once we get past our basic needs : food, water, warmth etc, the extent to which we are happy : is very much up to ourselves....
It helps to be "positive"... When bad things happen.. (as they do to us all) instead of saying "this always happens to me!" or wallowing in it, try accepting the problem.... See the "positive" elements of the situation, accept that the bad will pass and tell yourself : you are strong enough to deal with it....
When good things happen, embrace them, don't say "Oh it won't last.", or "But so-and-so did even better." ... ;)
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Be thankful for all that you have, put effort into achieving what you want.. and can have, don't expect good fortune to just fall in your lap.. (an achievement worked hard for feels far more satisfying than one given freely)..and don't waste time hankering after the things you can't have....
Love people, use things.... Don't invest emotion or love in anything that can't love you back... Money, fame and possessions help make our lives easier, but they are not ends in themselves, and certainly no replacement for loving friends and family, and confidence in ourselves. ..Don't let other people's expectations drag you down... listen to your own expectations instead.... Be "true to yourself"...
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"Give me the strength to change what I cannot accept,
The serenity to accept what I cannot change,
And the wisdom to know the difference." .. ;)
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I wish you a lot of luck, in your future!;)

Thanks, for the question!;)

My regards! ... Take care!

Answer 2

Be happy so you will be happy , happiness is inside you , no body can make you happy as much as you can

Answer 3

To come to the terms with the fact that you will never be COMPLETELY happy no matter what--it is impossible. So, you have to live and deal with what you got, and make the best of it.

Answer 4

You will never be happy until you are true to yourself.
Within each of us there is a desire to do something.
There is something that gives your life purpose, meaning and fulfillment.
Find that one thing and you have found happiness.

Answer 5

That is what we're all searching for but in vain. I think happiness is something that comes within u. I hope that we all might get it one day.

Answer 6

Be good to others. Just love and serve other people. Try it - you'll like it.

Answer 7

exercise your body and your mind will follow..

Answer 8

What you think about is what you feel.

Answer 9

let good things happen to you.