i've discussed earlier about this guy that i like who such a jerk and an asshole to hurt me though i've been so kind to him (well he's a jerk because i was introduced to him and he deny it, deleted me in his friendster, send him a message for his b-day but never respond, i actually used different name so he could just respond and spreading nasty things about me).i know that i should not waste my time with this guy who ignores me, who made fun out of me,but the thing is im hurt, ok my ego hurts!and i cannot let go unless i can get even. im really bad and i know that. but a little "revenge" will not hurt right? any suggestions how can i get even without being so obvious? any plan? any bright minds out there! grr..thanks guys! any suggestion will be a big help!
2006-10-14 10:37:31 · 18 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell everybody he had sex with a stuffed animal
2006-10-14 10:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting revenge will not change anything and may very well do nothing but make the situation worse.
If he is such a jerk let him go and go on with your life.
Why would you care what a jerk says or does.
Your real friends will see him for what he is and those that don't will reveal the depth of their friendship with you.
Good luck.
2006-10-14 10:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by drg5609 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being the better PERSON.. No need to stoop to his level.. Show how special you are by being stress free. You sitting at home hurting feeling bad, wanting to cry and he can careless probably has no idea you even feel this way. List it as a life note on how people act.. He might be acting a fool because on the flip side he likes you.
2006-10-14 10:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is get over this chump. As far as revenge goes it does not belong to you. God said vengeance belongs to him and He will pay. You can not do evil for evil because if you do you are also in trouble with God. You would have to pay for what you have done to that person just as well as they are going to have to pay for what they have done to you. So why don't you just be the bigger and better person and forget about it. In the mean time pray and ask God to heal your feelings of hurt. I hope this advice helps you.
2006-10-14 18:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go for your sanity's sake. Like someone said in here, they will get theirs in the end. The only thing revenge will do is both of you will keep "uping" the other. You don't think this guy will find out? It all comes out in the end.
2006-10-14 10:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old saying, 'the best revenge is living well' - is true, so you be the most fabulous you can possibly be and the next time you see him, be NOT interested in him because you are way too fab for him anymore. Barely acknowledge his existence and move by quickly.
2006-10-14 10:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but revenge is for losers. Some guy ignored you on the internet and you bother to give him a second thought? You're nuts. Now if you married this guy, had kids and he beat you senseless, hurt the kid, and stole your money to spend on drugs, then get mad. What you're mad about is utterly rediculous.
2006-10-14 10:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pleeeaaaase! be the bigger person! He sounds like a loser anyway. But I'm wondering why you still tried to be his friend when he snubbed you so many times. He doesn't seem to want to start anything with you, and while that is definitely an ego-deflater, you should just forget about him and concentrate on the people who like you for who you are!
2006-10-14 10:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get revenge is to live life well!
When you get revenge on someone it just tells them howmuch they hurt you and how much you are hung up on them.
You should just move on with your life and chalk up the bad experiences to a good life lesson learned.
2006-10-14 10:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "little revenge" won't make things better, it will only make things worse! Can you say STALKER???? Thats exactly what he will be saying. Grow up and let it go already! He has made it perfectly clear that he wants nothing to do with you.
2006-10-14 10:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell everyone you accidently saw his "unit" and it was really small and that you laughed at him and now he hates you. Other than that find another guy who does really like you, that is the best revenge.
2006-10-14 10:42:06 · answer #11 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋