i really like him but he called me fat?

Question

there's a boy i feel very comfortable with...and im starting to like him but one day he called me fat and it really offended me...

he knows im mad but he doesnt know how much damage he had done. im not mad because he called me fat but because he doesnt know how much he's words mean to me or how important he is to me... i really like him... so, i want to got out w/him but i dont know if he want to also...how should i bring up the question? or should i even mention it? cause i dont wanna ruin our relationship...im confused

im not fat but i feel like he sees me as one and i really want him to see me as a girl not a friend

and he said he's sorry but like i said i actually mad because he doesnt realize he means alot to me

and rumors been going on that he liked me

Answer 1

If you fat - you are. If you don't like him - drop it. Move on.

Answer 2

Well, I hate to tell you, this man is an insensitive asshole and a disgrace to those of us who arn't. I think that you need to stick with him and show him that you're beautiful on the inside. Then of course tell him that he really, really hurt you. A little remorse can change a guy. Of course, I can't see you. So, if you are a bit chunky, try slimming down a little. Just don't get all buff and scare this guy. Show him what you're good at and that you have an awsome personality and he'll stop being so shallow and see you as a person. Good luck. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Ask yourself why you like him. If it's because he's cute, popular, or athletic, you just like the idea of having a boyfriend. Find someone worth your time, who respects you! If you honestly like him because he's nice (which it doesn't sound like!), funny, and respectful, confront him and tell him how much he hurt your feelings. If he rolls his eyes or laughs, just walk away or tell him off! Also, is he usually nice? Or does he always act like this? If he's usually nice, give him another chance. If not, don't! And about asking him out- wait to get to know him better first. If you're already friends, wait for signs that he likes you. If you're instinct tells you he does, ask him in personn, but not with ur friends or any1 else around!

Answer 4

well you can stay mad and find anther guy or you can get over it and not be mad at him because when my cousin Caleb got mad at me he called me fat but he was only mad because he got called fat for the some reason at school but he was really skinny like almost to the bone but i figured that out and i wasnt mad at him any more al you have to do is figure out if he was mad or grumpy at that moment not and if he was get over it if not he is really mean at some points in life

Answer 5

My theory is..never date or go out with a boy who's going to offend you in any way. He's only going to do say it again and hurt your feelings. I would ignore him anyway I can and if he asks you what the matter is, then it would be your opportunity to explained what he did and how it felt.

Answer 6

You need to tell him how he made you feel when he said that to you. He is not going to know how you feel unless you tell him. I don't think that you should bring up the subject of dating right away. Work on repairing the friendship first.

Answer 7

What a loser! Toss him He's so not worth your time. And take a look at ladies like Queen Latifah. If you walk and act with confidence like she does, the men will come running.

Answer 8

ok well any guy who would call you fat isnt worth even liking because you want a guy who is going to like you no matter how you look and actually cares about your feelings

Answer 9

tell u what nobody deservse to be called names.obviously he doesnt care about you as much as you think.if he did he would always respect you.what he is doing is called verble abuse . i dont know how old you are but if you put up with it now your setting your self up for more abuse. dump him. there are good guys in this world you just have to take your time and find one.say only one tning to him (bye).

Answer 10

Dont mention it just move on and find another guy you honestly want a boyfriend who offends you?

Answer 11

Im a guy Amandas friend , first gurl , dump him forget about him if hes that insensative that he would even say sumthin like that hes not worth walking accross the street 4 !!!!!!! Trust me ull find that special sum1 hes out there and one day it will happen for you!! I dont even know you but i could see just from wat you wrote that u r very much a very beautiful gurl on the inside, i dont know wat u look like on the outside , but it doesnt matter im already impressed by wat i saw on the inside!! So like i said as hard as it may be dump him forget about him and move on to better things in life!! Your much to deserving to end up with a insensative jerk like that!!