I found the person who molested me as a child?

Question

Can I tell people about it .can he sue me for slander, In Georgia. Atlanta area.can t prove it.hes a millionare buisness man.now.Thanks

the reason I say hes got money , is I am wondering if he could sue me and have money to do it.maybe lock me up for slander? I do not wont money I just wont him exposed for what he is,I will not kill him.are beat him up. I just wont people to know in his area so that maybe his is still doing it to children.I was just a child, very young did nt even know there wasnt a santa,I have known his place of residence for a while but it wears on me.its been a long time since he did it, to me

Answer 1

Yeah I would think so.......talk to a criminal defense attorney to find out, he might be able to tell you what you can do that you could get away with.

I would also talk to the police, you never know how many victims are out there. Chances are the behavior of this creep has continued and that he is too big in his victims eyes for them to be believed.....the police should be interested enough to look into the matter and find out if there are more recent victims still within the statute of limitations.

Why not look at suing him in civil court.....yeah its risky but it would also bring about some publicity that might bring other victims out of the woodwork. The threat of a lawsuit might even make him offer you something that could help you start a support group for helping other victims of his.....more to look into I know, but probably worth it. That or you just remove him from the planet...which is my personal choice!

to some of the people above me who seem to think molestation stops if you just move on......bs folks, if it happened to you and you didn't speak up you only allowed it to escalate......like these people ever stop.....Renee, get some help....your not healthy about it if you think you don't have an obligation to protect others....to the guy above you.....you don't have to prove it, how the hell do you prove it, pretty f*cking hard from what I have seen. Its the sheer number of people that come forward when ONE person takes a stand that makes the "lack of physical" evidence unimportant. I applaud you Kefer for taking a stand, I can see you aren't doing this for revenge of money, however money is what this guy will understand.

Kudos to all those who are responding with a caring attitude.....molestors need to be dealt with not ignored and not covered up because a person is embarassed, there is nothing to be embarrased about, they are innocent....

Answer 2

If indeed he did molest you as a child, the chances are he is STILL molesting children.
So, go to the police and tell them.
One thing I did find odd was your statement that "he's a millionaire business man now."
What does that have to do with him molesting you? If he were a trash collector, when you "found" him, then he still needs to be reported.

Make sure your facts are straight and in order. There is also such a thing as people making false reports, which I'm not saying you are doing. But the money issue seemed odd. As for slander, if it's determined that you are making false allegations, then yes, you could be prosecuted for that.

If he DID molest you.. YES, go forward, you may save another child from the same.

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I'm posting this after your additional details were posted.
YES.. REPORT THIS MAN. There may be more children,(or adults now) that will come forward. Make sure you have a GOOD support system for your own emotional needs. Then GO FORWARD. Don't let him get any idea of your intentions before hand. Most likely his computer(s), will be seized and there may be child porn on those as well.
You might want to phone abuse counsel centers and speak with someone who has experience in handling these matters.

Answer 3

"each and every thing else about this man or woman is optimal" no expensive, no longer something else is optimal. Molesting children doesn't make something of your being and mentality perfect. From the exterior, issues might want to seem "favourite" yet they seem to be a concepts from it. those abusers can attraction human beings and are sociopaths. They lack empathy and are very solid at being deceitful. it is how they capture their sufferers and folk closest to them. Run a concepts and quick, there is no longer something solid which will come from holding a relationship with someone like this. I obviously desire you're literally not this determined (no offense) to attempt to paint the photo for your liking. in case you settle on to be with this man or woman besides, do no longer have children with him or convey him round youthful children. It then turns into your duty if a baby receives damage because you comprehend the actuality. ultimately, in case you probably did a history verify, the penal code received't inform you the precise man or woman's age. examine it heavily. this is going to say something like lewd or lascivious acts / molest / by technique of rigidity and so on. with a minor below age of 14 years. this does no longer advise the baby replaced into 14 years old. There are diverse penal codes that team diverse age children mutually. it would want to were a 4 year old, 8 year old, and so on. see you later because this is below 14. Over 14 might want to have a diverse penal code. yet both way, all are disgusting and anxious, he's mentally ill. As a area be conscious about 2 weeks in the past i replaced into sorting out the sex registry to work out if there have been any pervs in my community, properly my coronary heart thumped when I said someone in basic terms up a similar street the position I stay. right here week I run into the perv and we pronounced a vehicle parking area at the same time as i realized it replaced right into a similar guy. maximum desirable and exquisite personality i replaced into repulsed! you would possibly want to not in any respect tel by technique of "searching" they cover it properly.

Answer 4

I would make 2 visits! One would be to the local police and tell them all you know. Chances are you aren't his only victim. The other visit would be to an attorney for how you can see justice done without retaliation of some sort. He needs to be controlled or your life could be in danger. After all...why do you think so many people are molested and soon afterward killed so they can't tell anyone?

USE EXTREME CAUTION HERE!! I just hope you are 100% certain he's the man!!

Answer 5

It sounds like bitterness is eating you up pretty badly. As a psychology major in college, I have to tell you right now, that reporting it may be a great vendetta, but emotionally, it won't do anything for you.

As the victim, people will label you. As an adult, you will no longer have anonymity. His lawyer will rip you to shreds. Memories from childhood have been proven to be very iffy and unreliable, even as an adult now, his lawyer could make you question your own name.

I would suggest you move after giving an anonymous tip to the police.

Answer 6

You might want to make an anonymous call to your local Division of Child Protective services and ask them whether there's a statute of limitations on child molestation in your state. Several people who were molested by clergy when they were children have successfully sued the predator when they were adults. I think you need closure on this issue and should pursue all lawful means to seek justice. Good luck!

Answer 7

The statute of limitations regarding child abuse has changed, so check with your local authorities to find out exactly what you can do. If you do decide to pursue a case, you'll have to be able to present some believable proof or else it will look like you're only out for money.

Good luck.

Answer 8

what were the circumstances here? is he still a threat to people? why cant you prove it? would you do this for personal peace of mind, revenge or to make sure others dont get harmed by him? things to consider......


as far as the slander goes, it really depends on who you tell, eg: your best friend v. a local newspaper.

dont know if any of that helps.

Answer 9

He could sue you if you can't prove it. But I would do it anyway, since the truth needs to be told.

I would not sue him fo money, or poeple will just think that is what you want. I would just let the facts be told.

You should be able to show that he was in the area where it happened.

Answer 10

Make sure he really is the person before just telling the world...if you are sure, let him take you to court...what do you care...you will be able to turn it around on him and counter sue for touching you in "not very nice" ways...