what about your ideas ?
2006-10-14 10:03:10 · 12 answers · asked by Allen 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Personally, my dear, I think that people being overlly judgemental are more the problem in society than homosexual folk. What goes on behind the closed doors of two consentual adults should have nothing to do with harming society as a whole. When someone hurts someone else, that's another matter. I have a 26 year monogamous relationship with a wonderful woman. We're harming no one yet some church folk have to get on their soap boxes and say how we're ruining the morals of today's society. How? By having such a long realtionship? By it being monogamous? By us loving each other? Isn't it silly? Have a good one. :)
2006-10-14 10:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Allen, those people are becoming fewer and fewer, thankfully. In reality, if they are not interested in going to bed with you, why would they care? IT would seem that here, the Fundamentalists always have to have something to hate (takes the spotlight off the flaws in their beliefs....and these people will never change. I see such a change in the youth of today...much more accepting, open minded, etc. My idea is to handle yourself with class, and if you are fit and can handle yourself, don't back down. In my life, I have been forced to belt a few, and the look on their face was priceless...a ****** who actually could beat the crap out of them. " I have also been told, by more than one, that they will NEVER assume a Gay cannot take care of himself again. IT was worth the price of admission. I do not advocate violence in any form, but let's face it...some situations just can't be handled well without some sort of retaliation. Words hurt no one, but being shoved or struck is another story. Good luck in life and peace.
2006-10-14 10:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not a problem and there is no mess. The conflict comes with people not respecting the choices or believes of others. Why would people feel that homosexuality makes a mess out of life, maybe they need to take a deeper look into them self's and live their life's loving instead of hating.
2006-10-14 10:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
being a bigot is the real problem in society. hating people you don't even know, just because they are different, is ignorant and wrong. whether it's because someone is gay, or a different race, religion or culture.... why hate? hatred is what makes life such a mess...hatred and intolerance is what starts wars. and how do gay people make life a mess? how do we affect you personally?
2006-10-14 10:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only problem, unfortunately, is the element of society that believe just that! Why can't people accept people for who and what they are and what they can contribute to society.
I'm straight and would have no problem arguing with anybody who thinks in that way about this totally unfounded, and hurtful assumption.
2006-10-15 01:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe being hetersexual is the problem since they are the one's that make all the babies. The world's population is over whelming us and causing a unbalance in our society's flow.
I have never had children and I have mentored many. It is ashame how many children are born to people who don't respect life they create. They think those babys will teach and tend theirselves while their parents selfishly carry on whatever life they live.
Homosexuals mostly do not have children and therefore are not contributing to over population.
2006-10-14 11:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by moire1111 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think the people who have problems with gays are the one's creating the "mess."
Why is it so hard to just live and let live?
2006-10-14 14:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heterosexuals makes life more crappy than homosexuals. and besides, it's fustrating that the majority are dumber than apes. why wasn't i born in another world of intelligent types?
2006-10-14 18:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by mystic_lonewolf22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay isn't the problem, it's the hate against gays thats the problem.
2006-10-14 10:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I think gay or homosexualism is a problem. Im not saying homosexuals are the problem. Im saying the act is wrong..
I just believe man and woman should elope.
Not man and man, or woman and woman.
sorry if i offend anyone its just my belief.
2006-10-14 10:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Danger! 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋