2006-10-14 09:43:39 · 21 answers · asked by tinkerbelle101 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You should have sex when you're ready and in love. You're not ready if you have doubts, or your scared, or you're even asking this question in the first place. It should be special and memorable with someone you deeply love. I would wait it out. Trust your gut feeling.
2006-10-14 09:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared then that is a sign that you are not ready yet. You have a lot to be scared about too. STD's, Pregnancy!! take it easy. Sex should be for love not just because everyone else is. Remaining a virgin could be a smart thing to do these days.
2006-10-14 09:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by lil_love1982 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your best bet is not 2 have sex but i guess its getting 2 that point that u just cant wait and hold out any longer use protection no matter what.procetion is the key if u want 2 or need 2 use a birth control u maay dont want to get pregeanet
2006-10-14 10:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by teresa_na2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married abstain until you are married. Birth control is not 100% effective in any from except for abstaining. Also, it involves the heart and making love is not that at all if all it is is sex. It is lust. Don't get in a hurry. Be patient and wait for the one that you will share your life with. It will be the best gift you have ever given.
2006-10-14 09:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help you. I am totally for waiting, but as for advice about being scared, IT HURTS LIKE ****. I guess I am trying to keep you away from it. If you're getting married that's different, but I do respect the fact that it's your decision. Go on birth control before hand, and use KY jelly or another lubricant for the first couple times.
2006-10-14 09:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get birth control and wear condoms. But if you really scared then don't do it. It will hurt though the first time, that is what my friend said anyway.
2006-10-14 10:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart i'm sure a beautiful gurl but if i were u i would be scared to because u just said u got pregnant a while back so maybe u should wait a little while
2006-10-14 12:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by headbanger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it for the marriage bed or someone special because you can never get your virginity back.
in the mean time there is a little thing called masturbation
2006-10-14 11:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by EMO cupcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to completely trust the guy. It does hurt and you have to trust him to go slow. If you're really scared, you should wait.
2006-10-14 09:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by blndmnd1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to have sex?
and if you're still scared then just dont do it
just wait until you are ready to face the consequences..
2006-10-14 14:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by ninja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋