People say that you just need to be patient and that there will eventually be love in your life, but I've heard that for years. I'm a confident, healthy, intelligent man, who believes in romance and respect in a relationship. In the past 20 years, I have not found a woman who views those things as being important.
Is it time to give up and acknowledge that I'll be alone for the rest of my life?
2006-10-14 09:31:31 · 10 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you can't give up. So many people in this world, yours will come. But please remember the hunt is fun too. Good Luck.
2006-10-14 09:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sad to read your question, because I'm a healthy intelligent woman who would greatly value a man who privileges romance and respect in a relationship; I'm sorry you've been so disappointed by women in the past. Perhaps you don't want to think about your problem this way, but could it be true that your expectations are too high? Perhaps if you focus more on making yourself happy and relaxing, a woman who may be flawed and not quite what you expected, but who makes you laugh and think and feel happy in your heart, will enter your life. In any case, I wish you luck and I hope that you don't spend the rest of your life lonely or unhappy. You have a responsibility to your own happiness - take care of yourself.
2006-10-14 19:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem hard to meet a decent moral person these days, doesnt it?
I dont think you should give up and think you'll be alone forever, nor do I think you should go gung ho and vow to meet the woman of your dreams; I think you should accept things as they are and as they turn out to be each day. I know that you have your own ideas for destiny, but perhaps destiny has some better ideas for you.
In my expereince in life, the more you are comfortable with who you are, where you are and what you do, the more likely some one great is to walk in to your life anways. Of course you cant always count on that so you just have to focus on accepting you and things as they are. Make the best out of it.
I know you are lonely and upset at how things are but maybe this is a time in your life where you should focus on making yourself the best person you can be.
Good luck!
2006-10-14 16:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 49 year old female, after two failed marraiges, I finally met what I would consider Mr. Right. I met him on my job, I was a nurse and he was there after getting hurt on his job, after several months of him coming in a few times a week, laughing, joking around he asked me out. I can tell you that I was NOT looking for this, especially not on my job, especially not a man of a different race than me, I just didn't think anyone like that would be interested in me! So, I want you to completely take this off of your mind, go on about you daily business, I must stress that if you continue to dwell on it, it will not happen, when you least expect it BAMMM! You just watch and see, please, get busy living or get busy dying, (shawshank redemption) damn good saying and very true. Good Luck!!
2006-10-14 16:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Honeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you desire, pray and believe that you receive and you shall have them. Perhaps this is the missing link in receiving the desires of your heart. Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find and knock and the dooor shall be open. Ask God to give what you are asking for. Every good and perfect gift come from the God of heaven.
2006-10-14 16:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time to do that would be 2 days after taking your last breath. Until then anything is possible.
2006-10-14 16:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find love, it will come when you least expect it, do not give up. Just when you least expect it, it will be hitting you in the face. Get involved in a group activity. Just be ready!
2006-10-14 16:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being married 25 years and she leaves you for somebody else
2006-10-14 16:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Boogerman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had given up last year and he finally walked into my life
2006-10-14 16:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to give up-- just be open to recieve it and it will come your way
2006-10-14 16:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋