i have been with my bf for three years he said earlier you mean the world to me but you dont own me and all it was about is he lives up north at mo and i said can u start to see me alot more otherwise the relationship wont go anywhere and thats wen he said you mean the world to me but you dont own me anyone no what he is meaning
2006-10-14 09:22:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You gave him an ultimatum. I would have said the same. If you are not happy, find someone new.
2006-10-14 09:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kinda clingy, are you always on the phone looking for him or are you always trying to figure out ways for you and he to be together, its sounds like he is feeling a bit smothered even if it is long distance, There is really no way to answer this without knowing just what your relationship consist of. If you don't see him that much, and your living really far away from each other, it sounds like he is just not that into you. Don't sit around waiting honey, go out and live your life and have some fun, make him persue you.
2006-10-14 09:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Honeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think my "partner" was right...you DON'T own him. You were "demanding" him to come see you and threatened that the relationship might end if he didn't. YOU put him on the defensive, you didn't offer to go up there to see him, you demanded he come to you, but there is no marriage, no engament, at least you didn't mention it so you really have nothing...you don't own him. He can stay where he is and if you break off the relationship...too bad.
2006-10-14 09:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's not willing to commit himself to you. If after 3 years you aren't married to him... what are you waiting for? You both should know each other well enough by now to decide "it's one way or the other". Either get married or break up. And he obviously doesn't want to committ anymore time to you now, he's not going to marry you. Best to get out now.
2006-10-14 09:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Christina M L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you came at him wrong. Try saying "We really need to see each other more, I'm worried about us." or "I'm feeling a little neglected." Say why you feel that way, and don't give altematums. They just back people up into corners they don't want to be in.
2006-10-14 09:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means,"You're mine, but I can do what ever I want-or, be with who ever I want." If you're OK with it, be my guest. But I personally wouldn't want that kind of a relationship. I would break up with him and find someone else who doesn't say things like that to me!
2006-10-14 09:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny,
I would NEVER hear those words from my husbands mouth!!! BUT if I did hear something like that I would assume that I am being too possessive for the person!!
2006-10-14 09:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be a free spirit, let him go! He is right, you don't own him , neither does he own you!
2006-10-14 09:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying you are being over-controling... talk it out with him if you can... just don't be so bossy. :)
2006-10-14 09:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋