i have no woman, no friends (here), hate my job and where i live.
2006-10-14 09:21:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
use your obicularis oris muscles :)
2006-10-14 09:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by KK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, know the feeling. I like to imagine my boss naked (it's not a good look, by the way)- even if you are feeling quite rubbish it brings an irresistable smile to your lips for a minute. Slowly you will feel good enough to change the small things so you can make a big change for the better. Women aren't the answer to everything - get happy, go out (I know everyone says "JOIN A CLUB!" but it is not that easy i know - but see if there is anything at all you are interested in - don't look for things with women, but whereyou can make friends - and then go out with them to get the women :) - and once you are established you can change where you live. Been there - hope this helps.
2006-10-14 16:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Behavin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet someone else without a smile force a smile and they will smile back at you and that will help you keep on smiling.
Life is what you make it and also very short so make the best of everyday. Make friends, male and female. When you are least looking you will find a female. Investigate changing your employment to something that you will enjoy.
In the meantime reach out to someone worse off than yourself, do a kindly deed and that will make you happy and bring you a big smile.
Good Luck & God Bless, do hope things take a turn for the better for you sooooooooooooon.
2006-10-14 16:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to take a challenge or a risk! i mean you hate everything about your life but your the only one who can change it!
you can ask for help and listen to tapes that get you all pumped up but unless you take ACTION to your GOALS then you are where your at!
The only way to FIX IT IS TO JUST DO IT!
Sounds likie you also need to find a way to make yourself happy because if your waiting for some woman or friend or job to make you happy then your mistaken sorry! it's not there job to make you happy! it's your job to be happy!
Coping.org is a great site ! helped me when i was like you i hated everything about myself and my enviroment had nothing and lived in the same place sence birth!
well i'm still in the same place but doing MUCH better and i'm HAPPY for once!
I mean i have bad days but YEAH i have more good days now! Just think positivly and take action!
Make goals write them down!
large goals and DAILY ONES!
Good luck
Mad luv
2006-10-14 16:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking at what you have got, don't focus on what you do not have. We all get fucked up (society) thinking we have to have this that and the other. Got a job, got a roof over your head, and plenty more it sounds like! MAKE THE MOST OF WHAT YOU HAVE AND WHO KNOWS WHO OR WHAT WILL COME ALONG IN THE FUTURE.
2006-10-14 16:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by julie knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a woman to be happy
leave your job if you dont like it
move to a different area
you only live once so make the most of it youve got no ties so you can do as you like
be random and spontaneous i wish i could be
Good luck.x
2006-10-14 16:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by *DB* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do nothing but smile, even when im going through tough times because i never want to let anyone down and laughter is the best medicine! so just think of me doin a big cheesy grin!!!:) and dont let it bring u down! just be happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! fheigheigerigherufguifg fgeuigugbegui UIAbd vSUv USVdvudv udvy sori hyper ;)P.S IM UR FRIEND! IM EVERYONES FRIEND!
2006-10-14 16:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by lil kell_ILRVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to try and buck up, no woman is going to want you whilst your miserable, join a gym or a group like i dont know karate yoga or whatever open your mind to new things and people then good should follow.
2006-10-14 16:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a break,take some time out,and REALLY THINK about your situation,what you want to change,and ways how to change your life for the better.Best of luck.
2006-10-14 16:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by duracell18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paint a picture
2006-10-14 16:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by NeedSomeAnswers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack in the job, move, get out and socialise. Turn that frown upside down hunny! ;)
2006-10-14 16:24:28 · answer #11 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋