my bf and i have been together for 1yr. Im the 1st grl that hes had intercourse with. and when we have oral or intercourse he doesnt *** at all. ( he can only make himself *** by taking care of himself). what can i do? i mean i might not be so good at giving oral... but even during sex he doesnt come. and i dnt know what to do.. i like him,.. and he likes me too. and he never showes that it bothers him. but i wanna make him happy because i wannabe with him for the rest of my life. ( by the way hes not my first.. and my ex did come after sex) . anways i know this may seem funny and weird.. but please can someone try to help me
2006-10-14 09:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He needs to see a doctor. Find out if your bf is on any anti depressant medication. This will cause this to happen. In the mean time work on it, and maybe it will happen.
2006-10-14 09:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I hope you are both over the age of 18 and know what you are doing in that situations IF you are under 18 you both are to young and should not be discussing this and for the answer in time it will happen. You are his first right. He needs to figure out why he cant and work on the problem he might just need some time to work out the problem give him time to adjust to the new feeling in his life.
2006-10-14 16:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a fairly serious problem. I think you two should seek professional help from a psychiatrist or a sex therapist.
2006-10-14 16:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Paul Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world is a maya in indian mythology. wake up and realise the need of your soul and do the right thing. sex is not fun in life.
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2006-10-14 16:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by mammus007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one thing, you can be pretty sure that you wont be with him forever. As far as his "problem" goes, it is mental and I wouldnt be able to tell you what you can do. Sorry
2006-10-14 16:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and see whats up.
2006-10-14 16:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋