2006-10-14 08:48:25 · 23 answers · asked by bigmama69687 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow that's a complicated one. He probably still has feelings for this other woman. If you feel that you can support the child alone, go for it. He's obviously not very dedicated and you don't want that kind of man raising your child. If you love him though, you may find it in your heart to forgive him.
2006-10-14 08:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes.. and don't be having sex outside of marriage again. Now look at all the people this affects, namely an innocent child, yours. If people would just wait for marriage and keep it in the marriage, this would be a non issue. I think you knew what kind of person he was from the begining. He hasn't changed. Sorry but you will have to deal with him until the child is 18 years old. Be a grown up, do your duty to your child. If you child is a girl, then you need to behave like the kind of woman you want her to grow up to be. If your child is a son, you need to behave like the kind of woman you'd like your son to some day marry. If you get involved with a man, ask yourself "is this the kind of man I'd want my daughter to marry?" and if the answer is "No" then YOU dont need to marry him. You wouldn't want your daughter to put up with a man treating her that way, then why should you do it? You are now setting an example for your child. Now go and do the right thing.
2006-10-14 09:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Christina M L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I somewhat have not been in that difficulty yet my mom has, she left my father after giving him one probability and didnt even imagine about taking him decrease back. it isn't healthful to augment a kinfolk with a difficulty like that. Your sister ought to be mentaly healthful to seem after her kinfolk and with a guy like that there is no way she will be ready to stay sane. A being pregnant and start is the most desirable miracle in this earth and for a guy of the age 36 to easily throw it round and push aside no longer in difficulty-free words your sister yet yet another woman wearing his baby is selfish and disrespectful. i do no longer comprehend your sister and their relationship yet no man or woman and that i advise no man or woman advantages to be cheated, i replaced into once cheated on and that i did get a std thank god i replaced into in a position to get rid of it yet, she will be ready to not in any respect comprehend what he will convey residing house to her, what if aids were the case than her baby does no longer have a parent to love them. dishonest is a significant project and forgiving them once is advantageous yet when it happends back its a no flow!
2016-12-04 20:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by domingo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is based on trust and honesty and if you don't have that now, you won't have it once you are married. Commitment is the key here and it doesn't look like he is committed to you or the other women but just wants to have his own pleasures met. Should you leave him, personally I would, I would not my child to have to go through months or years of problems that would stem from this. For me my child would come first, but ultimately the decsion is yours. You can raise your child on your own, You can be strong for yourself and child. No man or women is worth the sacrifice of trust, honesty and committment to each other. Believe in yourself.
2006-10-14 09:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you make a commitment to someone that you are going to get married the running around should stop. He is obviously not ready for that type of commitment if he is trying to be with both of you. Now that she is pregnant he is going to have to deal with her, and try to be there for this baby and the other baby they have together and try to be there for you as his wife(if you stay) and your baby. Maybe you and him should take some time apart and let him figure out what he wants....
use condoms!
2006-10-14 08:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by fin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether you leave him or not is totally up to you. You need to sit down and "weigh" the pros and cons of your relationship and make the decision, why you're still with him at this point is beyond me but you're not me. If it were me I'd show him the door and then go file for child support quickly, I'll bet his other chickie will be doing the same so you'd better get moving to the lawyer's office.
2006-10-14 08:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, just go on the Jerry Springer Show, get into a fist fight with her, have your boyfriend throw some chairs around and then let the audience sort it all out for you.
2006-10-14 09:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by elk312 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big what!! listen to me you dump him now or your problem willget big. Mamma what the hell he thinking of that mother fker.HONEY is he running the Brady bunch show!? Give it to him let him pays childs supports. The bastards like to screws but dosen,t like to pays. I look at this ways his first love is his wife, your just some he look as ababy making machine. Honey you deserved to be treated with respects, not some cums, along. What your baby going to think? Daddy 2mom, lots of boys/girls. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-14 09:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with this : No, just go on the Jerry Springer Show, get into a fist fight with her, have your boyfriend throw some chairs around and then let the audience sort it all out for you.
2006-10-14 09:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by inlovebabe1591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes! As long as he pays you child support. Girl, please! Why haven't you left yet? Pack up your baby and get the heck out. Or better still, send his sorry butt to live with her and change all the locks. Just make sure you get a court order to make him pay for your kid. You are better off without him.
2006-10-14 08:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋