She has a gorgeous husband (slim and well FIT) Who wouldn't look twice at any other woman (including a long legged blonde Swedish au pair who threw herself at him) She cooks like a dream, nothing is too much trouble for her - she can talk knowlegably about football, politics, world events - the kids flock to her and love her to bits - she has got a beautiful face......i asked my partner why, he shrugged and said he didn't know, she's just great -WHY!!
2006-10-14 08:38:59 · 29 answers · asked by merciasounds 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Er what's not to like, just because she is over weight, its pretty obvious why everyone likes her, I would love to have her as a friend, I am slightly overweight myself, as a couple of friends are, but we also have skinny friends, who get well pissed off that men seem to be more attracted to us, the answer is we dont spend all out time and effort worrying about how good we look, yes we take pride in ourselves, and look our best, but its the not the be all and end all, personality, a sense of fun, intelligence, these are all things that cannot be applied from a bottle or store.
2006-10-14 11:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want her husband for yourself! There's more to life (and HER) than what the scales say. Maybe if you're lucky, she may find you nice enough to become a friend, but if you really can't see the attraction for others then perhaps that wouldn't be wise of her.
2006-10-14 08:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there is more to someone than how much they weigh. Would a man rather be with someone who is boring, ugly, has no sense of humor but a fantastic figure OR someone who is over-weight but fun and confident? A good figure on it's own is only good one thing.
2006-10-14 08:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by ding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the truth is, that it's personality which counts. She is lucky to have a husband who doesn;t wander (perhaps he likes big girls). I am not being rude, I am overweight myself - and tryinghard to do something about it - but it is a heartening to know that human nature still goes for personality - even more than love.
2006-10-14 09:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Behavin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because regardless of her weight she sounds like a really nice person to know. You don't find many really intelligent lovely people around and when you do it is worth having them as friends. Your hubby and others must see this and the weight thing is immaterial to them they just generally like her as a person.
2006-10-14 08:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a nice person , if she was 7 stone and a miserable woman no one would like her would they weight is just one of those things in this day and age , after all we are all getting bigger so they say.
2006-10-14 09:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by simjam31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well theres a butt ugly girl at my college and she has a sxc blonde boyfriend who is a right laugh(best way to be) and hes been with her 5 years!! shes spotty, bitchy, and unstyled hair and absent personality, i really dont understand as i havent had a boyfriend for 4 years! im not full of myself but im not as ugly as her. So i really dont have an answer i am as confused as you are so when u get an answer please let me know what im doing wrong!!! thnx
2006-10-14 09:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by lil kell_ILRVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a all rounder, he can have a conversation with the guys, she can cook, it also sounds as if nothing is no trouble for her, and she is easy on the eyes. May be if you will ease up on her you will like her also, and as you see, size has nothing to do with it! It is all about the personality!
2006-10-14 08:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some women are just really cool because they are happy, fun and have a great love for anything and everything.
These kinds of women will get loads of attention regardless of weight.
2006-10-14 09:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about a woman called jannine if so she is nice to everyones face but she is a really nasty piece of work behind peoples back she is really too faced if this is the person her husband tony is really nice too good for her she controls him like everyone else
2006-10-14 09:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋