She said "i think you should become a lesbian, out of every one i know you seem most suitable". Should i be offended (not thats there's anything wrong with it it's just not me) or what?
2006-10-14 07:59:00 · 28 answers · asked by Lucy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's not interested in me, she has a boyfriend, who was there when she said it, apparently they had been discussing it earlier in the day!
2006-10-14 08:03:55 · update #1
I'm worried that I'm seen as unattractive to men
2006-10-14 08:14:55 · update #2
Just so long as you are comfortable with who your are I would not be too concerned about what others think. You are you and others should not be saying this to you. Somtimes people can be very hurtful without knowing it. I make it a rule to never care a great deal about what others think about me, I find that you end up geeting hurt far less with this outlook.
Upshot put it out of your mind and move on.
2006-10-14 08:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really become a lesbian, you are born that way and would find women much more attractive than men. You might be bisexual and able to have a dual attraction. What really matters is not what your friend thinks but how you feel about the idea? You just may be meeting awful guys but that won't make you a lesbian!! Perhaps she has more experience in these matters??? LOL!!!
We can still like you no matter what.... xxx
2006-10-14 08:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think do not think that you should be offended but I would propose that you watch out for the OR WHAT. The experience you are describing is not something I have not heard before, however, in those cases the person making the comment was either gay or exploring gayness. If the comments continue, or if you start reading vibes, then you perhaps it will be clear where that person is coming from and that they may be wanting you. Good luck!
2006-10-14 08:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by pre-pastor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be worried. There are probably lots of folks out there who feel like you do at the moment. You just do what you think is right, and hey, if you get it wrong try again!!!
2006-10-14 08:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your so called friend you don't become anything-that is what you are whether you like it or not. Maybe she should try becoming a little more mature and you should get friends who repect your feelings. Don't worry about her she knows nothing.
2006-10-15 07:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by sandra j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend said somthing similar to that to me...my bf dumped me and im always in and out of relationships with guys...so she said "ur probably will be aginst this at first, but i think u'll warm up to it...maybe u should try going the other way...i mean it doesn't have 2 be anyone at this school, maybe try dating a girl online....u r always having trouble with guys." She insisted i go the other way... I was shocked that she would say that to me, but i told her it wasn't gonna happen and i just made myself forget about it. wuts one persons opinion anyway...
2006-10-14 08:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would of been insulted and told her she should become a hooker to earn her money, she has all the qualifications, men just love a big mouth like hers.
2006-10-14 08:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is probably feeling around for your reaction because she is sexually attracted to you and would like to have sex with you.
If you are so inclined to check it out, try to kiss her a little and see if any butterflies go off in your tummy. Nothing wrong with being curious once in awhile.
2006-10-14 08:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your not comfortable don't worry. don't be offended though. you are probably really good looking. who wouldn't want you. look in the mirror when you ask that question. you know you are a hottie!!!! : )
2006-10-14 08:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by sirblackie88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was testing the waters to se if you were interested in her....i wouldn't be offended.
2006-10-14 08:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋