I have a boyfriend and of course we have sex. But sometimes I will be like " come on please have sex with me before I go to work so I can be in a good mood." he will usually do it no problem but sometimes he is like no I am busy. later ." then I will keep buging him so he will get up through me up against the wall hold down my hands , down goes the pants. then he starts well you know... and why he is having sex with me he is hard core. he will hit me why we are having sex get in my face scream at me and say is this what you want I will start crying and say no this is not what I want he just says well to late. I will tell him to stop he will go harder choke me tell I pass out. slam my head on ****. whatever. after he is done he says now are you happy and then like a hour later he says" did I hert you " I am bleeding down there from him I have cuts all over me . and he ask me that. I don't think that is right this has happened twice. So I just don't interupt him why he is at work.
2006-10-14 07:54:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just need to knwo if I am just being complicated. he also makes me suck him off. if I don't want to he will make me no joke. and I don't think it is right but is that really rape since he is my boyfriend? keep in mind he is 24 and i am 18
2006-10-14 07:55:55 · update #1
It definately is not right. It is an abusive relationship and you should get out now. What he is doing is domestic battery. It is against the law and you should report it so he can get some help.
2006-10-14 07:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by copchick2m7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya kinda ask for it by buggin him to do you before work dontcha? Sounds like you're pissin him off by doing that. Needless to say, however, what he's doing is not right and it's not only abuse, it's downright ASSAULT. You need to dump this loser unless you just like this kind of treatment! You could put him in jail for this behavior and I do believe that's what you need to do. He is sick and needs to GO! If you don't do anything about it, then you make your bed and lie (and possibly DIE) in it. He sounds totally psychotic.
2006-10-14 16:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. That is inexcusable behavior and you deserve better than that. Go find yourself a better man! It will only get worse with time. If you need help with it, go to a woman's group for women who have gone through similar things.
2006-10-14 14:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is rape even if you are married and you say no. This guy is bad news you need to get out of the relationship now.
2006-10-14 14:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋