i have this crush. we were introduced, i send him sms, add him in my friendster,i always smiles at him in short ive'been so good and kind to him. but then he still ignores me, never answer my sms (i even send him a birthday message but he never says thank you!and just for him to answer me i have to pretend that iam a different person -- how sad!) he even deleted me in his friendster. i dont know why he was like that. i really cant remember a single instance that i went beyond the suppose limit. im so sad because i just want him to be my friend. do you think i expect too much? i was thinking that maybe his past actions were mere flirtations. are guys really like that? what should i do? i know i have to forget all about it, but then some people especially his friends cannot forget (i could even overheard them saying nasty things about me -- they are really bad) please enlighten me.thank you!
2006-10-14 07:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lyin', flirtin' bastage! LOL! yep. Personally, I wouldn't WANT a "friend" like that.....!!!!!!!!!!!!! How RUDE! He is obviously avoiding you and I would so totally reciprocate. Chalk him up to experience...a bad one....learn from it and go on......look at his friends, too! That says a LOT about HIS character! The friends he chooses ain't so fine, are they? ew. This situation jus' makes me sick. sorry. He's just an a_ _.
2006-10-14 07:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Stop.
I know that it hurts that he is not even giving you the time of day, and worse yet, he's saying mean things about you. Unfortunately you are making it worse by harping on it. Don't look to deeply into it... it may be that he is just a jerk!
So stop giving him ammunition and move on to someone that might actually like you for you... it'll be hard at first because you'll never really get any closure. But you'll eventually get over it and when you do, you'll feel so much better and be glad you did! There are some people that you just don't need in your life!!
2006-10-14 08:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Miriam J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a waste of time, but, know your feelings!
Some guys aren't worth it! You don't need to take crap off of anybody! Yes, you expect too much! He is probably playing games with you now to see where you take it! Don't follow along whatever you do! He isn't worth your time! And, yes, IMMATURE guys are like the one you mentioned! Forget the LOSER!
He WAZ flirting and I don't expect he meant it to go anywhere to tell you the truth!
WHOA, now when HIS friends say bad things about you and you hear it? The main person made a fool of you!
Sorry you got hurt! He'll get his back some day and someone is gonna hurt him-----always comes back Dear!
Go on your way and go to better places to meet friends your age----go to Church activities, go to a Library and meet kids your age, these kinds are good influences and you need that! My best to you!
2006-10-14 07:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is a "friendster"? You sound like you need to grow up. Don't seek revenge, it might just blow up in your face.
Did it ever occur to you that he might just be SHY? Maybe he's never had a girl like him they way you (psychotically) do, and that he's overwhelmed by the attention he's getting. Think before you do something you might regret sometime in the future.
2006-10-14 10:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just choose own friends, depends of behavior, look like, or whatever. You are not in his dimension, even to show up in his present. Sad but real. Just give up, move on
2006-10-14 07:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither he nor any of his friends is worth a second thought in your mind or another minute of your consideration for friendship. Find another friend who has some courtesy and common sense. He sounds like an asshole. You deserve better friends!
2006-10-14 07:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phrases of expertise comes from ultimate Soul.... word of expertise to share on the instant --- The Controller of Senses is ideas and Controller of ideas is Intelligence and Controller of Intelligence is Soul and Controller of Soul is ultimate Soul(God)... in an attempt to do something clever to wish God.
2016-10-19 09:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone and forget about him. The more you try to get his attention, the more you give to people to talk about. Just leave him be.
2006-10-14 07:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by ilvtnt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let it go... life is too short and what troubles you today will be nothing in the long run. enjoy the ride.
happy thoughts of love, peace and light
2006-10-14 07:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit being a jellyfish...find someone else to like.
2006-10-14 07:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋