My friend is really bossy and mean to her boyfriend and I really think they should break up what should I do?
2006-10-14 07:34:58 · 39 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mind your own business. Tell her how you feel but drop it because she is going to do what she wants, and he will eventually get fed up and leave if he wants.
2006-10-14 08:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I really dont think its up to a third party to decide. If your friend respects your opinion, then she will explain her situation. Maybe she is a bossy girl who wants a guy to be a slave, either way maybe if its not her, then maybe its him. If he is a victim, then there is no doubt he knows deep down inside. Trust me you will help the guy if you bring up her mean ways.
However, you could lose a friend in the process. Like I said its not really your place but as a friend you can ask her whats up with your attitude to your bf.
2006-10-14 07:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should really stay out of it, but if you are concerned about the boyfriend maybe you should talk to him about it. or you could talk to your friend and try to get her to stop being so bossy to him. either way leave it to them to decide whether they should break up or not. the best you can do is state your opinion and hope for the best. it's not your battle to fight.
things to consider:
maybe he likes it?
do you have an ulterior motive to breaking them up?
do you really see the whole picture?
is it really any of your business?
etc...
2006-10-14 07:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Blu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're really that concerned about their relationship try talking to them together about it, dont accuse one or the other of anything just say something like it seems like you two arent getting along together as well as you used to is there anything you need to talk about? try to be a mediator rather than breaking up, if they say there isnt a problem or dont want to talk about their relationship then dont push it just let it be, be warned though that any meddling at all could be taken poorly by them, but if you are going to meddle try to help their relationship not destroy it, a friend can forgive for meddling in a caring way, but i dont know how many people can forgive for meddling in a hurtful way...also consider that maybe this type of relationship works for them
2006-10-14 10:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by dae_shadow_spirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow the power of friendship is so touching, isn't it? I wish you were my friend! Let's hope that your friend doesn't have any enemies because if you're an example of the friends she has, then she must be on the run from the Mob. Get the boyfriend drunk, then take pictures of you and him naked - get the Kama Sutra to get an idea of what positions you should get into for the pictures. Then send the pictures to your friend - you'll be doing her two favours.
2006-10-14 07:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave them be. It is their choice to be in a relationship, and it will be their choice to end the relationship. You can politely tell your friend that she bossy him around, but if that's her personality then it will be difficult to change. If the bossiness really bothers him, he will end it himself.
2006-10-14 07:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Equichick 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, here's a question. Is she cheating on him? If so, do you feel guilty about it? If she is, get proof (tape, videotape, etc) of her either doing it or talking about it. Then give it to him anonomously.
Two points here. 1) make sure HE gets it, not someone else and 2) make sure the proof cant be disputed. (like a taped conversation where she tells everything)
If shes not cheating you can always screw him like everyone else is saying.
2006-10-14 08:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by professorpippyppoopypants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely nothing!
God i hate it when a gf's friends really think they know what is best, and then they start filling the girls minds with all the insecurities...
Ok, Im done venting, Look at it like this, You try to break them up and it doesn't work. You lose a friend forever. If she asks for advice give it, If not, Dont. Its her decision, Try not to influence her.
2006-10-14 07:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mark. 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well if it was me, I would just leave it alone. But you could talk to him. Just kinda hint around a little bit, you know ask questions like 'don't you ever get tired of being bossed around?'
2006-10-14 07:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a real good way to lose friends and be labled..
don't envolve yourself it's really not your buisness. Let them figure it out, but even if you do get them to break up, for them to justify the reasons they might point out that you were the cause of it...
you'll get a bad name..... do you want to be associated with that... leave it be... you say.. she is really mean to you... but don't go any farther...
trust me......
how do you think people get labled... somehow/someway right????
please take my advice and for what it's worth...
good luck..... don't get inbetween them you have to think long term and you never know what's going to happen in the future so best leave it be.
2006-10-14 07:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋