If a man is emailing a woman that lives in another state, that he met on an out of town business trip, is that cheating? They are not flirty, but don't understand why this is happening. He also lied about it, said he's not emailing anoyone. Your thoughts, please.
2006-10-14 07:30:19 · 21 answers · asked by type3gem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, it's not cheating. It's you being jealous and poking your nose into his account.
Women can be in business too you know.
I e-mail lots of women, because we have something in common, and like to discuss it. My wife wouldn't dream of complaining.
I even have Yahoo messenger chats with other women while she is looking at the computer - you don't own him you know..
I left my first wife because of her insane jealousy.
2006-10-15 19:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please understand that lieing about it sends a very definite 'red flag' to me. On the flip side, as long as he is willing to share and be open about what the email contains then I can hardly call that cheating. But here is real life......if this were happening to me I couldn't help but to assume the worst. He met this woman on business trip....presumably an overnight trip. They are now communicating in what seems to be a private way.....via email - no phone records, no cell phone calls, no pagers etc and relatively untracable unless you have access to his email account. Assuming that you have already confronted him about it and he lied would indicate that there is something going on even if it's only attraction (which is serious in itself) but not led to the physical. Tell him how uneasy it has now made you feel...like you can't trust him and you're feeling suspicious of his online activity and of his business trips. IF he isn't doing anything he will be perfectly open with you about it and leave the emailing alone.....Best of Luck
2006-10-14 07:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by breezyb23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating if you feel guilty about it and have to lie about it. Men and women can be friends, my boyfriend has a bunch of girls that are friends, but he never hides them from me and he talks to them about me, braggs, etc. You have to ask why are you still emailing this woman, do you want something to happen? Until you know the answer, put the mouse down!
2006-10-14 08:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he's not being honest about it then that is bad enough in and of itself. He should be honest with you. Have you been overly possessive and jealous? Maybe he's afraid. Either way he needs to communicate with you about the situation. If nothing is going on then he should tell you why he felt he had to lie so the two of you can get to the root of the problem.
2006-10-14 07:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by naturegirl1017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is lying about the emails then he is hiding something so yes its cheating. A man in a relationship should not be emailing other women unless it is family PERIOD!!!!
2006-10-14 07:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES. Maintaining relations with other women that 1-exclude you and 2-he can't do with you right there (hides from you) IS CHEATING. He who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. and if he hides things, who is his loyalty to?
Sorry.
That goes for text messages, phone calls, letters, "Just friends dates", chat rooms, and email. Cheating doesn't have to mean just sex.
Move on, he already has. You can do better anyway.
2006-10-14 08:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite, the 1st ingredient replaced into denying it, and gave you the excuse because of the fact of tough time on your relationship. circulate on and locate somebody that promises you with the honour you opt for, and in case you have problems which you 2 can settle it, than working removed from it. as quickly as he cheats he will continually cheat and have an excuse for it. you deserve somebody greater constructive basically tell him solid bye and need he satisfied. solid success.
2016-12-26 19:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by schneir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he and God know what is in his heart. And, even he may not be fully aware of the trap he could be falling into. He should stop the correspondence altogether unless there is something for he AND his family, including his wife, to gain from it.
2006-10-14 07:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by ĴΩŋ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is contacting someone - by any means - to have a "friendship" out of the marriage in secret, that is cheating. Cheating is doing anything intimate with someone of the opposite gender - not necessarily sexual, but intimate - meaning personal. Talk to him again, talk to him again, talk to him again.....
2006-10-14 08:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are emotionally giving to another person on a regular basis - you aren't giving that to your wife. You are playing a dangerous game that could wreak havoc with your marriage. You can't be working on your marriage if you are online sharing with someone else. Might not be what you want to hear.... good luck to you.
2006-10-14 07:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by MissHazel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋