break up with him because I'm ready to move in and he can't decide? But if that don't work I will still want him back.
2006-10-14 07:19:17 · 9 answers · asked by Leslie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you truly care about him tell him that you need a commitment or you must move on and stick to it and mean it , or keep things as they are. But, don't try to have your cake and eat it too!
2006-10-14 07:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't break up w/ him. Sounds like u r trying to give him an ultimatum, and he just might call ur bluff. U had better be ready to take the consequences should ur plan backfire. There is no sense in forcing someone to move in when they are reluctant to. U will only make each other miserable. And u should know that when u move in with someone u sacrifice a lot, and u could also drive each other crazy if ur not compatible living mates.
2006-10-14 07:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimatums are always destined to fail. You may not only break up with him, but he may decide the pressure is too much to have a make up later. If he is not ready and you really want to be with him, then you need to use patience and understand his feelings and concerns.
2006-10-14 07:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by trooperthorntton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would not be a wise thing to do. Men are procrastinators, have and always will be. Do not pressure him or he might just tell you to take a hike. Deal with your relationship with him one day at a time. If and when he's ready he will let you know.
2006-10-14 07:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be dumb. Perhaps he is not AS READY for commitment as you are. You want to live in sin and he doesn't. Give it more time
2006-10-14 07:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well heck you must be in a pickle
Your call, sis
I think you've already decided
2006-10-14 07:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How ironic... you asked if something is dumb and couldn't even spell that word correctly. And put more information next time.
2006-10-14 07:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be vey dumb of u and very ungrateful as well
2006-10-14 07:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by red_is_my_blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumb and bumb too!
2006-10-14 07:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bear Naked 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋