He's been talking on his cell with an old flame he claims is a "friend" but I know she's a tramp! Please help! Urgent!
2006-10-14 07:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by edgeston34 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to put yourself through that in catching him in the act? To much pain. If you are 100% kick that slime ball to the curb and tell that skank to get stuffed. and Osiris the other woman is a tramp come on screwing a married man!!! why dont people ever answer the question they just want to comment? Take the money and run. Go on a nice vacation without him and let him live his life in misery with the WHOE! He will realize and when he does itll be to late!!! Good luck!!
2006-10-14 07:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by frha75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe follow him or if you ever catch them on the phone tell him you wana say hi or get the number call yourself and find out if you know the tramp then go to her and confront her there are many things too do you just have too think, catch him in the act! if you kinda do follow him and he goes somewhere he usually doesnt after a few days that he has gone over there specialy if he says he is going somewhere else walk in or knock on the doors windows anything he won't answer the door it's not his place so she will and then you can catch him in the act or pay some money get a lie detector test, and if you wash his clothes pay very close attention for make up umm smell for other perfume that you know you don't where and s**t like that belive me men aren't smart he will be caught and then he will be s**t out of luck hey wouldn't it be funny if she dumped him after you caught him or she finds a new married man...lol what a f****ing a** and tramp lol as you would say
2006-10-14 07:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by *Babbs* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you do catch him in the act....how will it change anything? The truth is, your gut feeling is that he is cheating and it hurts you. Sit down with your husband and discuss your feelings. Don't blame others and don't accuse and call names. At the end of the day, you won't feel any better. Talk about your current feelings and talk about the good times and ask how the two of you can work together to bring back the good times. If you can't encourage better communication with him after your talk then perhaps it's time to face reality that the relationship is over.
2006-10-14 07:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stonewall:
Deja-Vu' HERE! I went through the X-act thing! It was about 5 yrs. ago. I walked in some nights from work and my guy then was doin' the same thing-yeh, "supposed" friend. I was told the girl was his "Cousin!" (Yeh, right!)
I have some good advice! All you can do is try to have a talk with your guy! Now, I have learned in the past
that you should go with your first impressions----such as, IF you feel uneasy about your guy talking to this girl, you can bet he is having a relationship with her!
What to do? Give it time and if something IS going on, it's GONNA SHOW sooner or later, THEN, you will have your PROOF, right there in your hands!
It will be a bumpy ride, but, iT IS better to know!!!
keep watching!
2006-10-14 07:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down and have a chat with him. The bottom line is even if he isnt doing anything YOU think there might be something going on.
Men do not think like women. He may not think hes doing anything wrong. So its up to you to explain how your feeling. Tell him your concerns and see how he reacts. He may not have known what this was doing to you (giving him the benifit of the doubt that there is nothing going on)
If you KNOW somethings going on then you sit his butt down and confront him. If he is cheating on you, there is not much you can do to make him stop. You need to make some serious decisions at that point.
Bottom line is unless you follow him around every second of the day and night to see if hes meeting up with her, youll never know for sure unless he tells you. So you need to confront him and see what happens.
good luck!
2006-10-14 07:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by falling_down23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you think he's cheating, if you really feel it in your heart, your woman's intuition is trying to tell you something. If you don't want it to cost you something, the you are going to have to follow him yourself. He'll usually say he is going somewhere or doing something and then he'll meet her there or will not be going where he said he is. Chances are he wouldn't think you would follow him so he won't be looking in his rear view.
It really won't help if you sit him down and ask him because he will pull out every lie in the book in order to quell your suspicions or fears. You are also not going to be satisfied with his answer because if he says he's cheating you'll hate him, if he says he's not you'll think he's lying. So you have to find out for sure. But if your gut is telling you he is, chances are that your feelings are correct.
2006-10-14 07:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Miriam J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it when the man is doing something wrong the anger is automatically directed at the other woman...why is that?...i think you should be calling your husband some of those choice words.
2006-10-14 07:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh Osiris! Are you the other woman? You're so naughty!
2006-10-14 07:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WIN HE NOT HOME GET HIS CELL PHON CALL NUMBER HE JUST CALL RO HIRE A PI TO FLOLOW HIM
A ROUND
2006-10-14 07:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more importantly, he likes the tramp! He's a loser! kick his butt out!
2006-10-14 07:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋