i got raped by the guy i was dating on 3rd date. He insisted on having sex,and forcing him self on me , and i didn't fight back, just said no couple of times, that's it. I lost my virginity, and he did the same thing again on the next day. (forced him self n had intercourse, i didn't want to , but again did not fight back)
my entire relationship with this guy was less than 2 weeks in person, (i knew him for a month before that online). During the 2 weeks i was raped twice , but . Since i knew he want's sex, i voluntarily had sex with him 2 times after he had raped me, however i never enjoyed the sex just did it and he was still forcing postitions on me which i didn't really want to do. He broke up with me after 2 weeks, and slapped me and offered me money to leave him alone. I then called the police and reported the rape. But now some ppl tell me i am the guilty person becuz i had stayed in relationship with him and had sex with him after rapes. Am i guilty and y did i stayed after?
2006-10-14 07:01:54 · 6 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know why you did what you did, but I do know that any lawyer would tear your story apart in front of a jury.
2006-10-14 07:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you are unsure when all that **** goes on your mind is not right you don't feel right and unless soemone has been in that position they can't understand I have been raped a few times. and even once by my boyfriend and one thing you learn is rape has nothing to do with sex that is why he was still forcing himself on you in positions. that is because it is anger a form of abuse just like beating on someone so if you offer it usually pisses them off more. Why you stayed a million reasons. and why you turned him in the point is weather you stayed or not did yuou tell him no. yes you did so there for he knew he was doing wrong there for don't blame yourself for him being ****** up in the head. You should of gone sooner but like a said a million reasons of why you didn't that even the person going through it can't explian good luck gurl
2006-10-14 07:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 04:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at the time the guy was raping you, you were not able to digest what was happening, as u were virgin b4 you could b curious of the thing "How would it feel to be.....??"
And you dint enjoyed sex with him coz you were not attracted to him i suppose.....but still you were dating him....i dont know why??? Here is your mistake.
2006-10-14 07:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jay Friend 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
because you was scared and that guy is evil there is more than one way to skin a cat get that son of a b!Ch get him at any means nessariary
2006-10-14 07:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you did nothing wrong, you shouldn't feel guilty
2006-10-14 08:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by snowgirl281 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋