i am so depressed. does any of you know how long it takes to get over somebody?i am so depressed and i have a meth(ice) drug problem and i am trying to get into rehab i am so depressed i never meant to let it go this far . i didnt realize how much i was doing till i couldnt stop. i hate the person i have become...even thopugh i dont know who i am .i dont want to be a lone but even around "friends" i am still lonely.i know i sound crazy or depressed but you know....i need advise and not from a councelor who has there answers in a book. i want real life experiance answes. PLEASE HELP?!
2006-10-14 06:58:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No easy answers, and no bulls*it-you MUST stop. Increasing drug dependency=increased isolation and depression, and you've chosen one of the very worst. Do not hesitate, or think it over or f*ck around with this-get help, and get it now! You must quit entirely, and you must succeed, or it will destroy you. Even if loneliness drove you to this, and keeps you on it-it won't solve anything No decent person wants to be with an addict-they would always come second. Turn to family, and friends if possible. And check into a rehab if you can't do it yourself. Sorry if this isn't what you were looking for, but I felt honesty was better than crap. Thousands of people have beaten this sort of thing-it won't be easy but you CAN do it. The alternative is far worse.
2006-10-14 07:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by cajungaijiin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a drug problem when i was younger but now im drug free. u just have to think about whats more important to u. and about getting over some one its different for everyone. just remember even though ur hurting now u will get over that person and find some one better. now about being lonely around friends; maybe they arent true friends if they cant see somethings bothering u. and also the meth will make u feel that way too. just think about whats more important to u the drugs or life. even though ur depressed life will get better when u get off the drugs. u should stop thinking about the person that u lost and remember u will find some one else. just get in rehab and get off the drugs and life will get better. and if u need to talk to some that wont judge u then just contact me. good luck and i wish u the best.
2006-10-14 07:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real life fact is that if you are truly ready, you can find a rehab that will take you. Beating up on yourself mentally and emotionally isn't going to help , nor is making someone else more important than you are. If you don't know how to contact rehab, look under Narcotics Anonymous or AA in your town. Someone there can direct you, as can a clinic.
2006-10-14 07:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1: It sounds as if you're too young to really understand what you're feeling. I say that because by the way you accuse him, make you sound really imature and insecure with who you are. If you don't trust him there must be a reason. Either it's all you or maybe he has given you reason to question him. #2: He may have feelings for you, but he was tired of your games. I don't think he will go back with you. The best thing to do is move on with your life, you will eventually meet the right guy. And, if it was meant to be, you'll meet back up with him in the future. Good luck!!
2016-05-22 01:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your butt in rehab and get some help. Once you're there they can help you with the depression problem. Getting through all this is going to be very hard, but you can do it. I'm here for you if you need anything, or just someone to talk to. Good luck!
2006-10-14 07:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been addicted to anything, but I do have depression. You need to talk to somebody fast. Maybe an adult that you trust. If you feel like you are going to hurt yourself, please talk to someone. After you start your rehab, they will have counselors that you can talk to. I don't know if they will put you on antidepressants because of you being an addict already, but that is something to inquire about. I wish you the best in trying to get clean and stay clean.
2006-10-14 07:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by jen2192000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋