Okay, I met this guy last year and I ended up liking him (not such a good thing), apparently he liked me too. But he said that he didn't want a girl, so I was like "whatever". Then I find out during Christmas that he has a girlfriend. First thing that came to my mind was, WTF? Any who, I was heartbroken and I eventually stopped liking him. When we were talking earlier this year, I THOUGHT that we were friends, but he will always bring up things that really pissed me off, so I will go on days w/o speaking to him. Well, my birthday was on monday, and he didn't say Happy Birthday so I was pissed off (friends are supposed to say HP!), and then on Tuesday he sends me an IM going: "I am so over you, blah blah blah , I don't care about you." First thing to come to my mind was, WTF, we aren't even dating, WTF is wrong with this dude? And now, he doesn't talk to me anymore. You know what, that is fine, but I am completely confused. WTF WAS GOING ON IS WHAT I WANT TO KNOW?
2006-10-14 06:48:33 · 20 answers · asked by Ohay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, for the record, I have been trying to ignore him, but he keeps on contacting me. He won't go the f**k away!
2006-10-14 07:03:19 · update #1
WTF? No, I am not crazy, he liked me too. He acts shy around me and still does and actually told me that he liked me (and more). I am not making crap up. Before he IM'd me he told my friend that he doesn't think that I like him anymore.
2006-10-14 07:22:51 · update #2
was he your friend before this?
well i hope you weren''t and he just became a friend after the fact you both had a little connection and he ditch...
anyways i sorry to here there are still punk/wanna be a man type of guys out there. depending on your age like if your 10- 15 then he probley hasn't got through puperty 15 and over that is a typical guy for you may just had the same feelings you had and got scared and maybe felt if he let his guard down and fall for you then he would look like a little btch to his friends and also maybe you came too strong {details were missing }but guys do that at any age they run when they are scared or unsure
also he was dik and see how far he can go with you obiously he might did the same to his x-mas girlfriend
and if his is going to im you with crap you should tell him to be the man with the balls and get over the fact he messed up and will never have a chance with you again. just don't show how deep he can get into your skin more then he already has.
friends come and go friends like that you don't need and will let you fall in your face and want you to stay there.
2006-10-14 07:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by on roller coaster called LIFE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he liked you as a friend and he probably knew that you liked him but didn't want to lead you on...Thats why he said that he didn't want a girl cause he already has one.... You being heartbroken and i'm sure pissed when you found out that he had a girlfriend justified that you really liked him.
I don't know about you but being a friend of yours doesn't mean that one should remember your birthday unless you both are pretty close or bestfriends...
Regarding that IM he send to you saying that he's so over you could mean that he do not want to mislead you. He should have sit down and talk to you instead of instant messaging you such message...but being a guy that he is...he's giving you a signal but in a wrong kind of manner....
Let me give you an example... You have a boyfriend and one day you got to know this guy who liked you and you only liked him as a friend but didn't know how to break it to him eventually you'd say that you didn't wan a boy.....
I hope my 5 cents worth will clear some of your confusion...
Take care and God bless....
2006-10-14 07:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by GlamorizedQueen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He still likes you but doesn't know how to tell you.or if he wants you to know. He sounds relay confused and you should hold him to his word of not liking you and being over you. Let him move on and you should do the same. You sound like you have things figured out. He doesn't let.his girlfriend deal with his head aches.
2006-10-14 06:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nepolean Dynamite 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nicely..i assume which you may merely sit down down and have a talk with mike and tell him you merely decide to be acquaintances with him and you have time-honored john for a very long term. im unsure how that'll flow yet make confident that john and mike stay chum. solid success xx
2016-12-13 08:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is insecure and dosent care about a girl and her feelings or at least he dosent understand girls..i think you shouldnt even think about it cause if you were really friends he would tell you what was going on in his mind obviousley as i said before hes insecure and selfish...if you want to talk to him try saying like "hey i know youre "over" me but dude i really dont understand where youre coming from"...or something like that to get a convo starting on that subject...if he just dosent want to listen and talk then hes imature and doesnt know how to handle things
2006-10-14 06:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by choooooochoooooo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was never a friend or intended to be, forget that loser and move on with your life. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl and won't have any problems finding friends. Next time he IM you, tell him to go f*ck off. Beleive me, you are better off without him.
2006-10-14 06:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but hes a player. If hes your friend he wont rub stuff in your face and make you angry so often. I think you should just stay a way from him for a while. If he trys to talk to you say we can talk when your ready to in a civiliazed manner.
2006-10-14 06:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was and still is interested in you but, doesn't want to commit. It would seem that he is wanting to keep leading you on just in case he ever decides it your time.
2006-10-14 07:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by ibdsam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By the way all of this sounds it seems like this guy was just trying to lead you on or something idk but since you 2 weren't going out i wouldn't worry about it. So maybe he had some feelings for you still but hates to admit it. He might still care but idk maybe you should try and ask him what the deal is here.
2006-10-14 07:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he liked you at first, but decided to play head games with you. (What an asshole.) He has a girlfriend anyway, so just ignore him and move on. You don't need this sh*t. OK?
2006-10-14 06:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋