was i wrong?

Question

ok this girl was messing with me talking a whole bunch of crap about me so i got mad and i really told her off and im a quiet person who usually let things slide off my shoulders but then later in the day i heard a huge rumor about her and i helped spread it. i was still mad from earlier she found out and told me the story the rumor was that she was going to have a baby she was really upset that i helped spread it mainly because it was true was i wrong to spread somthing like that?

Answer 1

she did it too herself and it is not a rumor if it is true, so if she can be mean why cant you? pregnant women are still people like u and me EQUAL so just forget the whole situation and worry bout urself not any one else

Answer 2

What makes it sad is that it's true. She probably won't mess with you anymore though but maybe it was the situation and her mixed up hormones that got her going at you in the first place. If you want to be the bigger person, then maybe you could apologize and ask her if there's anything you can do to help her out (if you are friends) such as just being there for her to talk to.

Answer 3

You should consider starting another rumor. This could be loads of fun, although she will probably never be your best freind if you do this.

Tell everyone that you "heard" she had sex with four different guys in a week, and that she doesn't know who the baby's daddy is. That you also heard that she's just trying to pin it on (fill in the blank) because she thinks he'll beleive it.

To add even more credibility you could add something along the lines of....I heard from my sister's cousin's uncle's twin, who heard it from his aunt's granny's biological mother, who just so happens to live next door to (fill in the blank) that..............

Answer 4

Its always wrong to spread rumors. Even if its true. This would be a better world if people wouldn't get so caught up in other peoples business.

Answer 5

well....not really. i probably would have done the same thing! it depends on what she had done to me. but if the rumor was already started then it was going to come out even if you didn't help spread it. it's natural to want revenge, but just be careful and think about the consequences and about how you would feel if you were in their position. i know you don't really want to hurt someone intentionally. don't beat yourself up about it, it's not your fault that she got pregnant and everybody knows!

Answer 6

s because stuff like that is very personal and depending on her age i would have been upset with you too.
if you didn't want anymore problems with this girl when you heard the rumor you shouldn't have ran with It and helped it get bigger .

Answer 7

nope u werent wrong she deserved every bit of it..and dont go and apologize..if she wouldnt have talked crap to you then maybe u wouldnt have said that rumor bout her maybe shell learn her lesson not to talk crap about people..remember what goes around comes around!!

Answer 8

no because its her fault she got pregnant and if you didnt stand up for ur self infront of her then she will think shes all that and keep bugging you. also she spread crap about u

Answer 9

Do not be a rumor monger.
It does not add to your personality.

Answer 10

You would have been the bigger person if you had not engaged in gossip.

But since you did....

Yeah, you were wrong. But then again you didn't kill her. Just forgive yourself and don't do it again. I think you already learned your lesson. Gossip is mean and vicious and never justified.

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