i don't think i'm gay but i think my friend is we are good friends we hang out but im getting strange vibes from him first of all he likes to stare at me during our math class and he acts playfull around me llike putting his arm around my neck grabbing on to me(not in any innapropriate palces) he likes to play fight in the locker rooms and so on. and when we "playfight" his friend patrick always joins in like he's gaurding his territory and not wanting him to get hurt. and if your from wheatridge middles holla back.
2006-10-14 06:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by Lil olD mE 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
he has also asked me if i was gay twice and i've said no,and ask me to a sleep over but i refused to go and sometimes he ignores me so i don't know if he's just being a buddy or more.
2006-10-14 06:50:31 · update #1
sounds like you are curious. you could be simply just curious. its ok to be curious.
you need to figure out what it means to you. sounds like maybe you are feeling things whether your friend is or not. which just means you have feelings that you haven't quite defined yet.
its ok. just don't get paranoid and let things happen as you want them to. it'll be ok. you'll figure out what's what when the time is right.
for now just enjoy life.
Blessed Be.
2006-10-14 06:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend likes you more than a friend would. He may be gay, bisexual, or a young kid who is just curious. Who knows? You've done two important things so far: You've told him you are not gay after he's asked and you have also told him you do not want to sleep over. That tells us you probably are not gay yourself and also don't want to be put in a position where people might think you are gay or where you might be tempted to try homosexual activity just to see what it is like.
Continue to be this guy's friend but don't be caught up in anything with him, sexually, even as an experiment.
Try to acquire other male friends too so you do not rely on any one male friend too much.
2006-10-15 03:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I ain't no homosexual expert but it sounds like ya friend might be physically attracted to you in some kinda way. Talk to him (face-to-face) and ask him calmly is he gay or sumthin'. Don' do this aggressively & don' do it in front of anybody; just ask him real calm. If he says no you should still watch out because he could be lying(duh). If he says yeah I personally would stay the h3ll away from him. But it's your choice.
Don't mess up yur friendship bcuz of something stupid.
2006-10-14 13:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im from the c.o. so u kno but n e ways no you and your friend are young so hes probbably just horsin aroud tryin to have sum fun and his friend probably just doesnt want to be left out and you sad "i dont THINK im gay" so if you think he may be and you dont know forsure if you are then invite him to spend the night and if you feel like experimenting feel free thats what childhood and teen life is all about N tryin it is the only way to know for sure if you arnt positive that yall are straight!!
2006-10-14 13:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend likes you a lot!! No doubt about that.However.....if you feel the strange fibes from him and you are not comfortable,keep the friendship but avoid situations that can make you awkward and uncomfortable like sleeping over.....wait and see.
2006-10-14 14:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by florence T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's just being a good friend - but keep your back to the wall for the next month, just to be safe.....and don't accept any invites to a sleepover.
2006-10-14 13:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only does he like you, he likes you alot. He is getting his kicks from play fighting with you and Patrick joins in because he either likes you too, or he likes your friend,lol
2006-10-14 13:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds hot.
2006-10-14 13:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a same problem like u .. but we are only friend .. i change my sit in class and now i dont have a big problem !
2006-10-14 13:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by Best Friend True Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,I think that you should wonder about your friend ,apparently he like you more than just a friend. .
2006-10-14 13:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋