he said we need space cuz i all way with him and i never let him do thing cuz i allway get mad if he goes some where
2006-10-14 06:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by nini 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Yikes. You're way too needy, clingy and dependent from the sound of your question.
Spending some time without a BF will give you a chance to grow, mature and become self reliant. Guys dig it when you're not hanging all over them and you have a life and interests. It's such a drag to be with someone who has invested 110% in someone else and nothing in themselves.
2006-10-14 06:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by answer annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, That's your first mistake. You alway's need to give space now and then It is good for the both of you. If he goes out and want's to do what he wants to let him. That will also give you a chance to hang out with your girls or freinds. Space is the # 1 thing. People do not like to feel smuthered!
2006-10-14 06:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by kimberleewaterman20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel deep down there is a truth to that, then it well may be so. If not close ur eyes n take a new breath. However, if u feel u were at fault dont blame thyself, maybe u r doing something wrong n thre is reason behind that or its ur bf's behaviours that made u do so. I think ur taking the blame on urself and that should not happen.
2006-10-14 06:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder! In relationships you need room to breath, take this as a lesson and move on.
2006-10-14 07:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by karessakincaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let him have his space too. Guys hate it when you act like their mothers. They don't want you to always ask them what they're doing or where they are going. You just have to trust them. It's hard to do, I know. But would you want a guy to be that way with you?!
2006-10-14 07:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by adam's_mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you were too clingy for his taste.
Next time, give your guy his own personal space.
You wouldnt want someone following you around 24/7, would you?
2006-10-14 06:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by xolinds2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are a controlling possessive person. even though two people are in a relationship, they still need time away from that other person. time by yourself and with your friends is imperative to the survival of a relationship.
2006-10-14 06:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just explained why he left you in the question. You never leave him alone! Obviously you didnt think he would stick around. And getting pissed if he goes somewhere? wow. no wonder.
2006-10-14 06:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You smothered him..You need to take the time you use to spend with him and study on forming sentences and spelling.Good luck
2006-10-14 06:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so clingy in you future relationships.
2006-10-14 06:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by ChemGeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋