I have zero desire for sex now. I know that we have to because I ovulate tomorrow...but I just don't want to. Anyone else feel this way? Any advice?
2006-10-14 06:25:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Oh Yeah!!
I know that I should stop 'trying' and have fun, but everytime I try to enjoy myself I start thinking about where the pillow is to stick under my hips once we're done, and what day of my cycle it is and it totally ruins the mood!!!
I wish I could switch it off, but it's just impossible.
Good luck!
xx
2006-10-14 12:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES I DEF. KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! I kept telling my husband how much I loved having sex with him, but that it was just so much more enjoyable when it was spontaneous. It's just that after a long day of work when we were both so tired and just wanted to crawl into bed and sleep, we had to somehow get in the mood and find the energy to have sex. Luckily, we are now 5 weeks pregnant and can once again have sex whenever we would like not on a time table like before. We just kept reminding each other how much we wanted a baby and then it was easy to get in the mood. However, I must admit it was much much harder for myself to get in the mood than my husband of course.
2006-10-14 15:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make yourself want to light the candles take a long hot bath be waiting for him in something sexy or nothing at all put on your fav song just try to get yourself siked up for it he will feel the tension and will be able to tell if your not really into it and it could ruin it all. trust me been there done that. just relax and stop trying so hard for a baby and try to have fun sex you know that tension and stress aren't good for the little one before or after conception!
good luck
2006-10-14 10:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by brittney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I TOTALLY AGREE!! It's hard but we try to make it more fun and exciting every day. Mabey make some (or buy) chocolate covered strawberrie's and where a slinky gown and set the mood with music and candle's.Cuddle and kiss at first, give each other some praise...I love you's..etc. Hope this help's! Good luck this week TTC!!
2006-10-14 06:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by babyN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, turns into a chore and isn't fun. The best way to get pregnant is not to try. Have fun! Good luck!
2006-10-14 06:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Boy do I know how you feel. The romance is completly gone. It has become this chore that has to be done on certain days. I get so sick of it too.
2006-10-14 06:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and now we are taking a 7 month break from sex. oh and hes deployed for 7 months
2006-10-14 06:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knowwhat you mean
I remember the last time I start tellingmyself if this work
I will be holding abeautiful baby in 9 month
2006-10-14 07:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never felt like that before
2006-10-14 12:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by cutiez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋