Can the authorities force me to see them
2006-10-14 06:18:53 · 17 answers · asked by mickeok 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't want to see your own children? What is wrong with you? How can you not see your own kids? Why are you worried about the authorities? Did you do something aweful to those kids? IF you did nothing wrong and you love your children you should not worry about seeing them but be happy that they love you and want to see you. If your ex wife fears for theirsafety, by all means, you have reason to fear a woman that is going to protect her children from a unstable father. Think about it.
2006-10-14 06:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have to financially support your children until they are 18 years of age, but you don't have to see them ever again. You must be some awful person to not want to see your own flesh and blood. Kids grow up emotionally damaged if they have a parent who won't see them, you know. How do you think it will make your kids feel to know you never wanted to see them again? What a father! I pity you, though. You are throwing away the best thing you every had in life; your children. I guarantee you will be sorry.
2006-10-14 06:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can make you see your children but its in there best interested that you do but if you don't see them what are you going to say to them when they get older and come looking for you those kids ain't done nothing to you they didn't ask to come into the world dont take it out on the kids what ever has happened between you and your ex your kids need you so much you need to keep in touch with them you don't have to see her you can arrange to meet them up the road from where they live don't be an *** i bet those kids love you your there dad
2006-10-14 10:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you don't want to see your own kids and that you are worried that you will be forced to see them? Apparently, someone else has custody.
What kind of a parent are you, anyway? In my wildest imagination, I can't even imagine a parent like you!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 11:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that the visitation must be available for you. If you don't choose to visit the kids you will not receive the discount in child support for parents who remain active in their children's lives.
Please consider the children and how they will feel. Make sure they know that you still love them even though you don't love your ex anymore.
2006-10-14 06:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to come anywhere near them if you don't want to.
But why not? If you're worried about it being awkward, the only advice I can offer is - go for it. Spoil them, be funny, and hug them like there's no tomorrow.
Don't hide from them!!!!!
2006-10-14 06:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r worrying that much
why u gave birth to them?
do u have any sense?
do u think its only ur duty to give birth and not to take care of ur own children?
u r a irresponsible person
2006-10-14 06:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by kalai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to see them? Just a question
2006-10-14 08:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Bodieann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused...don't you want to see them? If not, then get out of their lives before you cause too much damage.
2006-10-14 06:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
access and child support payments/maintance are 2 seperste issues, so whether you see them or not - you will still have to pay, your attitude disgusts me
2006-10-17 15:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋