My dad is having an affair on my mother. With a girl a few years older then me. She works for his company. A job I wanted, but was turned down. My dad is very protective of her. And before she started working for him he always said how dumb she was. Now that she works for him (doing really nothing he still does her work because she doesn't know how to do it after being there 2 months) only needing to order material and going to the p.o. box. there was more to the job, but thats all she knows. And I date one of the workers he and a few other guys really don't like her. She makes the same thing they do and they work. Last night me and the b/f went to a bar and he went to get the drinks and she started talking to him. We had to leave because I really wanted to fight her. I couldn't find her. Thinking that she knows I was there and I really hate her she ran. I think. But now its to the point I have no trust in the b/f since I know what my dad is doing.
2006-10-14 06:18:35 · 12 answers · asked by kelly p 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think that you need to look your dad in the face and tell him that he needs to straighten up. You're putting all of the blame on the "other woman" while your dad is just as guilty as she is. She's not the problem. Your dad is the one with the problem. Demand to know why he is acting like this.
2006-10-14 06:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you wonder what went wrong between your mom and dad for this to be able to happen? Not like it's your business, but maybe mom contributed to dad's dissatisfaction in their relationship.
Whether they seek counseling together, or dad continues his doggy ways, you're an outsider, in a position to merely observe. Giving your opinion only needs to be done once. You ARE out of the house and on your own, aren't you (as you're going to a bar)? If not, maybe it's (past) time. If you're still living with your parents, and want to continue, realize it's THEIR marriage and THEY who must communicate about its problems. Sometimes we kids have a harder time 'letting go' than the parents we wish would let us go (into the adult world of making our own decisions). Good Luck.
2006-10-14 10:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no proof, only gossip and suspicion. If you don't like her that's fine, you needn't have anything to do with her except to be polite when you pass her in the corridor. If you want to fight her there's nothing really wrong with that, either -- so long as you don't actually make threats which could get you in trouble.
Gossip is not proof and it's not your job to make people behave properly. You might make a little extra effort to be supportive to your mother, though.
Good luck.
2006-10-14 06:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your dads infidelity ruin your relationship with your b/f. You b/f has to work with both of them, so that is why he answered her.Does your dad know that you know about her? He should not be rubbing it in your face. Tell him that you have lost any respect for him and that if he doesn't end it you will tell your mum. How old is he? Is he having a midlife crisis? Not that it is any excuse.Does your mum suspect. Just try and be there if she needs you. And as for talking to the 'whore' you don't need to, shes your dads problem not yours, why should you have to talk to her, she and your dad are disrespecting your mum and you dad should not expect you to be nice to her.Hope this helps
2006-10-14 06:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by DEBS A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry your dad has messed up. Have a talk with him and tell him to smarten up or you will report him to the personnell officer. If he values his job, and family he should see the light. Make sure your mom knows what is going on, and be there for her. It sounds like your dad's brains are caught in his zipper.
2006-10-14 06:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Canadian lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your case I would find anothe rjob and talk with your mom. Life isn't worth it tobe upset and hating all of the time.
On theother hand a good fight once and a while for good causes is good for the soul. Beat the **** out of her:):).
Feel better ?:)
2006-10-14 06:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad you know, so he gets worried. And tell him you will tell your mum if he doesn't. There's no excuses for what he and she is doing and it's not fair your mum is being pulled along for the rotten ride. Good Luck Girl Stay Strong.
2006-10-14 06:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mum. kick ur dad in the old cake icer. and beat the living crap out of the girl. in that order. you'll feel much better. everyone will be pissed for a while, but its the right thing to do.
2006-10-14 06:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by drdreallday 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have a little word in her ear if this doesnt stop her your gonna have to slap her around a little bit you should tell your dad what he is doing is wrong and if he doesnt listen tell your mother horrible situation she sounds like a total *****.
2006-10-14 06:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant fight ya new mom
what you should do is get weapons and then attack attack attack no need to fight when you got weapons
but remember Christmas is coming and she take you off her gift list is you attack attack attack
2006-10-14 06:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by axemanjase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋