If you had the chance to do it all again, would you?

Question

if you could replay the moment, do you wish you had lost your virginity to someone else?

Answer 1

If i could truly change time, it would be you, my love!

But, categorically, no. We were in love, engaged to be married, and we were both virgins. Everyone should be so lucky!

Yet, I must preface my answer with these words about the amazing love which has recently changed my world. She has moved me like no other, she is my goddess, she has lifted me to the highest grace, she is my soul mate, and i have never known such love exists before her, i never knew, could not even imagine or dream, of a love so beautiful, so absolute. In all ways save the most literal or "biblical" sense, she is my first and she is my only. None before her can be considered, no one compares, and no one ever will. For her and for myself, this is our first time.

now, many years ago, at the age of 18, i fell in love with a young woman, and she with me, and we betrothed to marry, and all I will tell you here is our coming together -- as virgins, the both of us -- in love as we did, was beautiful beyond all words.

i have written of this in other answers, and my love, you of course have read them many times over and we have talked of this, so I will just post the links to those answers now.


Kat asked: Did you marry the first person you got to know in the biblical sense?
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkE3sm_wnNiS5yhy.C2NX1MgBgx.?qid=20060817034334AApeVCO

Kat asked: Have you ever turned down a marriage proposal or had one turned down?
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060924081924AAxdyNg


Now, last but not least -- to directly answer the question, specifically the part you added in the details-- if I could put you
in that story instead of her, yes, yes, yes !!!

But, as we both know, fates had a different design for our joyful union, and as we have talked about, it took exactly what it took for us to be here right now -- no more, no less.

And I restate -- our love is so absolute, so pure, heart-to-heart and soul-to-soul, that for us, it is the first time in anyway that can ever matter to us!!!

So, considering how fortunate I was, to be with someone who loved me, someone who I loved, and it was the first time for both of us, well... only way it could have been better was if it was me and you back then.... or if i had spent a long life of celibacy while waiting for you baby!!!

Which, if I had known you were coming to me, I gladly would have done!!!!!!!!!

SOURCE: your love is beyond anything ever, and nothing compares to you!!!!!

Answer 2

Absolutely! I felt under peer pressure to do it, I was a year younger than my grade level peers. It was a different era where sex was considered, for a time, more "casual" and less emotionally loaded. Some cutting remarks from girls in my dorm about this. The irony was that the guy, a classmate, thought I was experienced, from my dress and because we were in school in the country, and I was from a savvy big city. I do remember that a few months before, I was in a situation with someone else, I did want to do it with him, but I was still living at home and was waiting to leave before I llived in a way that contradicted the parents' values. Oh, well!

Answer 3

YES YES YES!! I lost my virginity to my Ex. He was my first long serious relationship. After a while though he started treating me bad...getting physical with me, not letting me hang out with my friends (along with talking bad about them all the time). I met my husband while i was still with my Ex. I broke up with my ex 2 days after meeting my husband...and the rest is history!

Now I've been married 2 years with an amazing little boy who will be a year old next week : )

Answer 4

No. My first boyfriend was kind of a bastard, but then again, I was very attracted to him, and I know now that doesn't happen to me very often, so couldn't be wasted. Also, he had a small penis, and as a result, the first time was less stressful than it would have been with someone with a normal-sized penis (and it was pretty difficult even with a small one). It may have been years before I met someone really nice, equally attractive with a small penis who also wanted me.

But if I went back in time, I would have dumped him after three months of great sex and gone for someone a whole lot better.

Answer 5

Not at all. At the time he was my true love,heart and soul.
He did have the audacity to ask why I wasn't a virgin. I was but because of a lot of horseback riding and jumping, etc. there was no longer a hymen.

In retrospect, that question should have warned me and I should have run. Nevertheless, it lasted for 22 very good years.

Answer 6

what happened in the past already happened, no way you can turn back time. if you're problem is that the man you're with right now can't accept you because you lose your virginity to someone else then that person don't love you that much. go on with your life, enjoy loving and being loved back in return. what mattered most is the present, don't ponder on the past. live your life to the fullest.

Answer 7

No, I lost my virginity to my now husband. Sometimes I think we should have waited until we were married though.

Answer 8

Since I was raped ....yes I wish i could go back and take it all away...sorry to bring the room down but it is the truth

Answer 9

I don't wish it was someone else, I only wish that there hadn't been anyone else afterwards. I also wish that I would have waited until I was older....possibly married to actually do it.

Answer 10

YES!

I was totally taken advantage of when I was 15.

If I knew then what I know now....I would have waited until I was either engaged or married.