because of her own choice i declined all offers since @ 14yrs old for study commitments but now that i'm ready would a guy find it kinda weird as most people nowadays even my m8es all have had a close relationship...
2006-10-14 05:56:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i think certain choice of life in an individual is dictated not by the society but by the individual him/herself, dating /being in a relationship (the time frame or the person to choose) entirely reflects a person's own perspectives rather than the dictum of society....so i think nothing weird of /about u if u have not been into anykind of relation till 18 maybe u have yet to meet someone special in life and ofcourse i do feel u might be the one who believes in the long term relationship rather than short term flings and as the former requires some degree of maturiti to handle so u may be giving urself the benefit of time......
2006-10-14 06:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by simplynuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think most guys would mind, after all you are still only 18. I personally wouldn't mind too much that you are not at all experienced, if anything in some ways it would be better cos no one else would have been there before me. But watch out for guys that just want one thing, as taking your cherry will be on top of some guys minds and after that they may leave you and it will be chatted about down the pub for bragging rights. So be careful.
2006-10-14 06:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by JOhnnydd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a woman who has been in a relationship all my life, you gotta believe the grass isnt continually greener on the different area. they are frequently problematical and demanding and heartbreaking. Being unmarried might want to be truly some relaxing! notwithstanding the perfect suggestion i visit furnish you with is get that self-worth up! in case you come back off as depressed and unhappy human beings can examine that a mile away and it is truley a turnoff. even once you're the most beautiful woman in the international, disappointment and feeling sorry for your self can seem ugly. flow take care of your self to a facial and a nail cutting. dress up and flow out with some girlfriends and revel in your self. Meet new human beings and date round. bear in mind that the hot man or woman you meet is familiar with no longer something about you, they dont comprehend that you have not in any respect had a relationhip and that you're unhappy and actually unhappy. Make your self seem joyful and relaxing and enable them get to carry close you for you.. because i'm particular you're a staggering man or woman! And ultimately, bear in mind that you're in difficulty-free words 18 and also you're nevertheless very youthful. you've gotten many years on your 20s for going out plenty and assembly a number of of persons (its a lot less complicated to locate places to flow and meet human beings once you're 21...) solid success woman and bear in mind that it will be ok! in basic terms smile :-D
2016-12-04 19:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was over twenty before I had a girlfriend but as she was simply the most beautiful woman I'd ever seen (before or possibly since), and incredibly smart and discriminating it made up for the years of waiting. You might be similarly lucky.
2006-10-14 07:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dunrobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’ll just tell it like it is. I won’t tell you what you want to hear.
An inexperienced 18-year-old girl would be:
Perfect; a gem of a find (you know guys and our egos – we want to be on top etc.)
- Or she would be a walking time bomb.
Why that? Who knows how she would react one on one with a dude? She might still come across as a child trapped in a woman’s body. Who knows how her mind or hormones would react?
Some guys might like it a 100 percent, but I would say it’s a very mixed bag. Sorry for my frankness. Good luck.
2006-10-14 06:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo user 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll thnk shes jus a regular gurl.Im 20 ive never been on a real date nor had a real boyfriend and i love my life. Trust me its no biggie. Wen shes ready, no guys gonna find it wierd. why shud he?
2006-10-14 06:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by hey hey hey! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. I didn't date until I was in my 20's, no big deal. I waited until I was in my early 30's to marry.
2006-10-14 07:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Just Cuz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is not old at all - I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17. Anyway, who needs to know?
2006-10-14 07:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your whole life ahead of you and if anyone thinks its weird then they're not worth being with.
2006-10-14 06:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by ka_roe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very sensible and has obviously got better things to do with her time.
2006-10-14 06:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋