How do you get through every month that you do not get pregnant? Do you ever feel real depressed and down thinking it will never happen? How do you deal with it?
2006-10-14 05:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I will keep all of you suffering with infertility in my prayers. Thank you for your answers
2006-10-14 06:19:06 · update #1
I suffered with infertility for about 9 months and my solution was doing as much research as I can on what I can do to improve my chances. I also found out along the way that I have PCOS which is a condition that affects fertility. My suggestion would be to enlighten yourself and the way to do that is through a book called Taking Charge of your Fertility by Toni Weschler. It will tell you so much information that will help you understand what is going on. Regardless there is nothing to help you when you still may get that negative and feel utter disappointment but at least you will be more educated on how to improve your chances. By the way, I am now 9 months pregnant and expecting a little girl any day now.
2006-10-14 06:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anjali B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I never really expect that I am going to get pregnant. If I do, then it would be the greatest blessing, but if I don't it's a normal month. Believe me it is hard to keep yourself from getting depressed. I see and hear of so many girls/woman who are getting pregnant that don't even want or aren't ready for a child. At times I get angry that there are so many people in this world who have a hard time conceiving while others, who probably shouldn't be having children, are becoming mothers everyday. I know that one day I will be a mother. Whether it is through adoption, IVF, or natural methods. If it weren't for the numerous options I probably wouldn't be able to keep up a good attitude. Be optimistic and keep your options open and it will help you get through. Best of luck to all of you who are trying to conceive.
2006-10-14 13:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by lildiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been trying for a second baby for about 1 year and no baby yet. Our first sone is 6 yrs. old and was easy to conceive. It kills me to see other women in the grocery store or walking down the street with babies. I envy them so much. It doesn't seem to bother my hubby so much as it does me. It also really bothers me to see all of these young girls getting pregnant. Why do they get to have a baby that they aren't ready for, can't support and mostly don't want but I who wants so much in my heart to have a baby can't. I just feel bitter all the time. I don't really know how to deal with it, I am depressed a lot but I try to keep telling myself that it will happen and I will be a mommy again soon.
2006-10-14 12:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by swanseaemtgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helpful Info
2014-03-25 05:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple and best option for infertility treatment is “egg donation” by any younger lady .healthy women between ages of 21 to 32 years are eligible for egg donation program here at our center. We have few selection methods which are as follows.
• The prospective donor should be in general good health
• Should not have any major malformation or genetic disorders.
• Medical screening for any physical or mental ailments.
• A physical examination, endocrine profile, ultrasound examination or pelvis.
• Screening test for HIV, HbsAg, VDRL & hepatitis
• We surveyed few women – out of that 91% were moderately to extremely satisfied with the experience
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• Oocyte donor has the satisfaction of giving completeness to the couple by addressing them proud parents.
2014-03-11 09:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by SANIDHYA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have the same problem. We deal with it by reminding ourselves that if we are meant to conceive than god will let it happen. We just enjoy trying and Until than, we are not meant to conceive. He is the greatest power. Please don't try drugs. My sister and her hubby tried for a long time. Used fertility drugs and now my nephew was born with severe defects. And i dare not say that's what happens when you go against his word. My advise to you. Is just enjoy each other if you can't have kids. Or babysit as often as you can. Other people's kids are the best. Cuz you can send them home when you get tired of em...lol
2006-10-14 12:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nepolean Dynamite 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I have been trying for our first for 2 and a half years and each month is a roller coaster. We have faith in our doctor and in God that things will turn out as they are suppossed to. We talk to each other about how we are feeling and each failed cycle I have a good cry and pray and then let it go for that month.
2006-10-14 13:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult. Keep busy.
2006-10-14 12:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, Im still wondering why, myself.
2006-10-14 12:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋