I can't orgasm. Is there something wrong with me or is it him? As fair as I know he's doing everything right so is it me?
2006-10-14 05:35:53 · 4 answers · asked by Abby 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I can't orgasm. Is there something wrong with me or is it him? As fair as I know he's doing everything right so is it me?
I can do it by myself self but I've never really been able to orgasm with a dildo, I focus on the clit, so do you think that maybe it's because I'm not used to putting anything in?
2006-10-14 05:46:56 · update #1
no you are fine. you are not going to orgasm by putting something in, you are going to orgasm by clitoral stimulation. you do orgasm alone so you know that you can. you need to find a position that allows both. you either need to press against him so your clitoris gets stimulated also, try getting on top. it allows you to control the amount of pressure on your clitoris.
2006-10-14 05:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that hes small or that u need it in a differant way if u think hes bad try to get off by urself
2006-10-14 12:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by kobe8518403 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to orgasm on your own first to find out what you like. then once you do it on your own and you figure out how you like it, get him to do that to you and so on...
2006-10-14 12:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by missmelissa80 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its him- i am sure he is a bit selfish- gets his job done and doesnt worry about you.
as he is having sex with you- you need to also play with yourself. mabye he will get the hint
2006-10-14 13:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by jackttu1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋