The problem with my friend is she keeps jumping from one guy to another. She does not really go on dates with them she makes out with them likes there is no tomorrow. She also is not making good choices in life. She is making bad choices and she is barely twenty. I like to help my friend out when they need help but, I do not what to say to her. What could I possibly say to her?
2006-10-14 05:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hello, She's lucky to have a friend like you.Sometimes people are so bent on what they're doing that they don't want any advice - but you have to at least try because you care for her. Tell her "Listen, I care for you as a friend & I want you to have the good things in life - I mean this in the nicest way possible but - hopping from guy to guy isn't good for you - finding one guy who you can have a meaningfull relationship with would be something good for you & that's what I want for you something good" .... I hope this will work for her , but sometimes people have to learn the hard way that what they are doing is wrong (I've been there plenty of times!)...anyway good luck to you...bye bye
2006-10-14 05:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phase? or just having a good time? attention seeking? bad choice from whose point of view?
Glad to hear that you help your friends out but wait till she asks, she may not need your help...yet! If you really don't like what she is doing, try suggesting a different night out, or see less of her. Remember it i not always a good idea to give some one advice when they have not asked for it and it is her life she is living not yours.
2006-10-14 05:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's going down a slippery slope. Its hard to have a meaningful relationship with someone after becoming used to what she is doing. It's also a real turnoff in my opinion. Nobody wants to be with someone who gets around, at least not for the long run. Eventually guys will only be interested in her for sex, not relationships. If she doesn't stop she'll be unhappy in the long run.
2006-10-14 05:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by brambo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-14 05:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wont listen to anything you have to say anyhow, because she is just out having "fun" not really thinking.
If i was you i would tell her to becareful because she could pick up a STD and not even suspect that person had something or get preg. and not even know who the dad is.
2006-10-14 05:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her if she realizes what she is doing. Sometimes we take sex as love & we loose sense of control. Mostly I would be there for her & maybe ask if she is fooling around & using protective sex.Just talk with her honestly cause she is your friend & we tend to take advice from someone on the outside looking in.
2006-10-14 05:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she is lacking in life and what she is accomplishing with so many different guys. tell her your concerns and let her know that you care about her and if she needs a friend that you are there for her.
2006-10-14 05:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u iz a dumb asz u can tell dat ur a blond but u need tu tell her skr8 up son! listen shiit u tell her how u feel
2006-10-14 05:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by My 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to come see me!
2006-10-14 05:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋