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Question

I like this guy, liked for two whole years, even when I didn't think he liked me back. He's in one of my classes and here's the deal: We used to be friends in the begg. of the my 8th grade year, he would talk to me almost everyday/joke around with me, make me laugh [that's y I started liking him] and then when he got switched out of my classes, we kinda stopped talking, but I did the stupidest thing in the world, and would always stare at him. Like during lunch in between periods and stuff like that, I really loved the fact that everytime I looked over at him, our eyes would always somehow meet. On and off on and off I thought 'he likes me!' or 'he doesn't like me after all' and would get sorta depressed about the whole idea of him not liking me cuz I really liked him. And at the end of 8th we had a dance. My friend with a big mouth had to tell these girls that I had a crush on him and when they saw him, went chasing after him to ask him if he wanted to go to the dance with me

me all the while going, 'no plz don't' long story short, he said 'no' and I wasn't really devastated just kinda like whatever. and then in 9th the starting game was still going strong, I would look at him a lunch or in between periods, still sorta surprised to see him look up at me once or twice as if he knew I had been there looking at him the whole time. Never talked once in 9th grade, although once he did wave, although it was after I'd been waving at him for like a minute [he didn't see me] and it wasn't a 'oh hi' wave it was a 'whatever I don't really care' wave. Now in 10th he's in one of my classes, find him staring at me alot. I really like him.....it hurts to even think he doesn't feel the same way. What is this? I swear I cannot go a single day without thinking of him.

Answer 1

COMMUNICATION IS THE OPERATIVE WORD IN THIS LOVE STORY. YOU ARE BASING THOUGHTS OF WHAT 'S GOING ON IN HIS HEAD BY UNEXPLAINED ACTIONS. YOU ARE RELYING ON SPECULATION RATHER THAN COLD HARD FACTS. APPROACH HIM, ASK HIM FOR A FEW MINUTES OF HIS TIME, AND TELL HIM EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM. ASK HIM WHY HE TURNED YOU DOWN ABOUT THE DANCE . IF IT TURNS OUT HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU AS A LOVER/GIRLFRIEND THEN IT IS BEST TO KNOW IT NOW AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. ONE GUY TURNING YOU AWAY DOES NOT DEFINE HOW THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WILL BE. YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS, YOU DECIDE IF YOU WANT TO BE SAD, DEPRESSED, OR HAPPY-GO-LUCKLY, NOT THE ATTENTION OF ANY ONE GUY. A GUY CAN BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE, BUT HE IS NOT YOUR LIFE, YOUR WORTH. YOUR VALIDITY LIES WITHIN YOUR OWN SELF, YOUR OWN INDIVIDUALITY. IF YOU ALLOW YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM TO CONTROL YOUR BEHAVIOUR, THEN YOU ARE GIVING HIM THE POWER TO CONTROL YOU, TO MANIPULATE YOUR FEELINGS WHENEVER IT PLEASES HIM. I'M NOT SAYING NOT TO HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM, JUST BE SURE TO STAY IN SELF-CONTROL.TALK TO "HIM", NOT YOUR GIRLFRIENDS. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 2

After staring at him for 2 years you'd think you could just walk up behind him while he's in the hallway alone and just say hi. When he turns around, see what he does. He could be staring at you because he likes you, he could be staring at you because he got so used to you staring at him that he started staring back just to see if you are still staring (does that make sense?) OR he could be staring because he thinks one day you will pull out a big gun and shoot him in the head because you are the crazy staring girl. If you don't want to become that girl, just go up and talk to him. You have the perfect "in" because you are in a class together. If he totally blows you off, let it go. If not, you can stop staring and start talking. What are you waiting for?

Answer 3

I think he likes you, but maybe as a friend and my experiences with guys who like girls as friends is that there is sometimes things you can change about yourself and it may make him look at you more than just a friend. I think he knows you like him and you are a source of comfort for him, because he knows you won't reject him. The only contact you have had with him is some conversations and eye contact. Maybe he thinks of you as just a friend because you have not done anything to set yourself apart. Time for a makeover. Spice up your conversation and sexy up your wardrobe. By that I don't mean dress like a tramp with everything hanging out. Every girl has to have a go get him outfit. That is an outfit that makes you look too good and you know he would like. You have to find out his interests then learn about them and be able to have a cool conversation about it with him. I think there is hope just step-up your game and don't be shy ask him if he would like to go to a restuarant after school or to the movies on the weekend. You never know anything is better than just eye-balling the boy.

Answer 4

Guys are funny creatures (so no offenses to anyone). My son is your age, and he likes girls, but he doesn't want any one girl friend. I've asked him why, and he just shrugged his shoulders and says he wants to be friends with all of them. When your friends opened their big mouths and told him that you liked him, something probably put a big alarm in his head that told him that you want more than a friendship, and he doesn't. The best you can do is just talk to him in a friend kind of way. He probably misses the fun and the joking, too, but wants to keep it just friendly. If you can get back to that point, who knows? For now, just go for the friendship.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Everybody feels that way Even If you have a BF you still wonder If he really truley likes you or If he is just saying that he does. It always hurts when a guy that you like says no but just show him what he missed out on!! Show him how much fun youi can be and other stuff like that... If you really truely still like him, When or If he asks you out say yes... but If you don't like him, then Say No.. You've been Served

Answer 7

to be in The 10th grade, your both so young, just accept him as a dear friend, don't force a issues he's not ready for, maybe he's got plans for the future that involves allot of hard work and studies, got to be Friends first, if its meant to be, it will happen, sounds to me, like a nice young gentle caring and thoughtful person

Answer 8

i think it is just a puppy love crush!! do you guys talk or do you guys just stare? if there is no type of communication then it probably won't lead to anything. so make the effort and TALK to him!!!!! GOOD LUCK