My husband has an ex. She used to call all the time (when he had his cell phone) She of course knew where he lived. Never came over probably because she knew i was there. When i got pregnant she was the first one he told (he said he thought it would get her to stop talking to him) It seems that had made it worse. I know she was just trying to get him back. Anyway i guess she is really close to his aunts he only has two of them. She talks to them constantly asking how he is doing is he working do they know his phone number. His mother on occasion talks to her sisters and keeps telling them she doesnt have a phone (she lives with us) she knows if she gives it out the sister will get it to the ex. He isnt close with his aunts so he hasnt heard anything that has been going on. I told him it bothered me that he talked to her and since then he hasnt. Should i be worried with her on the prowl or should i not worry since she cant really find us?
2006-10-14 05:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They dont have any children together
2006-10-14 05:10:59 · update #1
She is a snake waiting to slither her way in. She had her chance and it did not work. It is good you told your husband how much you do not like him talking to her. The only reason he should be talking to her is if they have children together. There is really nothing you can do about the Aunt situation just let that be.
2006-10-14 05:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest hun you can't stop an ex from calling really. Unless you change your number or screen your calls. I mean I have an ex husband and he calls all the time only because we had a daughter together. My husband hated it so what i did was whenever he calls i pick up the phone and just give it to her so i can avoid talking to him. I think in this case he doesn't have any children by her so its alittle different. I would not answer the phone and he has to be willing to answer it either. sorry she is ruining things for ya. Just don't let her get to you hun. Your the better person because you have him now. She is old news. Smile
2006-10-14 05:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be worried....Be very very worried. She obviously hasn't moved on and is trying to get your husband back. The solution is simple. Have your husband write a letter to her (let him allow you to read it). Tell her that he has moved on and it is time that she did the same. Let her know that he does not wish to have any additional contact with her. He can do this in a polite way but he should be firm. Let her know that if it doesn't stop he will have to take legal action (ie a restraining order). BTW, I'm not sure what state you live in but in CA the divorce decree always has a blanket restraining order which prohibits such activity. May want to check into that, let her know if it i continues you'll contact the proper authorities. Good Luck.
2006-10-14 05:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about trust.Do you trust him? If you do then don't worry about it...Bugging him all the time is not something that will help.It will just make things worse.This is the time you should be enjoying your pregnancy.Go out with your husband and have fun... When you get things for the baby include him. Ask for his opinoin on things...Enjoy life and don't let another woman ruin it...Good luck
2006-10-14 05:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left for a reason and she is the ex for a reason. As long as your taking good care of him I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2006-10-14 06:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband wanted her then they would still be together. Stop allowing her control over your life by letting her bother you. Ignore her and she will evenutually tire of the game and go away.
2006-10-14 05:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's an annoying thing , But what matters is how your husband responding to it , and you said he hasn't called her since you told him you were angry about it , so you don't need to overreact to it not to lose him , as he might feel surrounded by her actions from one side , and by your complaints about it from the other side , so if you didn't act wisely , he might look for a 3rd woman , so you don't need to feel bothered , shes the past and you're the present
2006-10-14 05:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by DeMeNtEd AnGeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about the ex inless she really becomes a problem
2006-10-14 05:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust your husband and focus on your family-not the ex.
2006-10-14 05:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋