There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be a mother or even stay-at-home mother. In fact, that is a very respectable and honorable duty. However, to many women have poor judgment of men. How would you describe a man fit to trust as a husband, father, and 'man of the house' ? From job, to education, to morals, etc...
2006-10-14 04:34:14 · 5 answers · asked by nice_boobs 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
1. Patient.
2. Consistant.
3. Stable job w/ health, dental, retirment (unless wife is provider).
4. He can manage money for more than himself; willing to allocate money to the families needs rather than his own.
5. He must be able to stay away from sins/ vices/ addiction like pornography, alcohal, drugs, road racing. Able to shut up when he see's a naked woman on tv selling stuff.
6. Structure is good - routine - clean-up times - play times - work times - and social help times.
7. Wonderful ( but not necessary ) if he contributed to the community.
Men make wonderful homemakers. My dad raised me all by himself. Compairing him to my friends Mom's he seemed to be more level headed than them ... but he wasn't too great at teaching about love since I think he was kinda clueless on this himself.
2006-10-14 04:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My wife seems to like my concern for her. I love staying at home with my kids, and we think about how we can make her home-coming a special one every day. She's the type that likes a couple of quick calls during her work day and a nice meal and back rub when she gets home. I don't just hand off the kids and chores to her when she gets home; I think about how I can bless her. I teach one class on one weeknight, and I pick up a few odd jobs here and there to help contribute, but she's a financial genius, so she has much more earning power than I do. Once we both admitted this, things were much easier for us. I'm not one to be lazy, and I can't think of a better couple of character traits for a house husband than unselfishness and initiative. Sorry for rambling, but this is a special topic for me.
2006-10-14 23:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any man who has been raised with strong family values. He must love his family more than anything- no matter what. No weakness as far as cheating or doing anything to comprimise his family's wellbeing. Everything he does must be in favor of his family. That's not selfish- it's just right.
2006-10-14 11:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
how does he treat his mother? that's (in a sense) how he'll treat you. does he hold onto jobs? how does he treat children? is he responsible? remember, he won't be perfect, but any man who feels respected will do his best to love you
2006-10-14 11:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by cupcake 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Job = highest paid.
Education = most of it.
Morals = best?
2006-10-14 16:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Zakary Dejesus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋