am i really UGLY???? PLS TELL ME!!!!!?

Question

when i look at the mirror..... i cant say that im ugly....
and i also cant say that im perfect.......
some people say that im handsome and
some people will say that im ugly......
but i know in my self that im not ugly because
many people say that im handsome and there
is also a person who is saying that im ugly....
why like that??? pls help me....

Answer 1

You are only as ugly -or as beautiful- as you feel. Outward appearance is mostly attitude, y'know? Some days I feel so blah that to look in the mirror while shaving would be a bad thing. I wear stubble that day. Yet other days I see one handsome man looking back at me with a great smile and terrific blue eyes all agleam. Those days I shave. My S/O likes the way I look all the time, so with her the point is moot. My cat loves me no matter what, too. Letting others dictate to you how you look will only reinforce their observations, and that is something you can avoid and prevent. I don't know you, have never laid eyes on you, but the fact that you can ask this question of a perfect stranger says a lot about your true inner beauty. And no one is perfect looking. I personally think that all these ultra-glamorous super-models are sickly and bony, and without their layers and layers of make-up, they are not as good looking as the cover of the magazine shows them to be.
Be happy with how you look and with who you are. This alone puts you above all the others who would belittle you because of their own insecurities.
Have a wonderful day! Bless you!

Answer 2

I can't answer that without a picture. The answer lies with how you feel about yourself. Really. If you feel ugly you will carry yourself like an ugly person, your confidence will be ugly, and yes- you will be ugly. If you feel like you are handsome and have something to offer, you will carry yourself with condfidence, and that is the most attractive thing you can put on your body. Think about Trump... He's not an attractive man. But he has success and money because of his confidence and choices. He gets the most beautiful women in the world. Confidence is sexy. Find that, and whether you are or you aren't, you will be.

Answer 3

No one's perfect. Don't let the negative things others say get to you. Anyone who says thing like that to someone else has problems. For some reason we tend to believe the negatives even when deep down we know they're not true. Go with the positives and you'll be much better off.

Answer 4

I'd say no, you're not ugly... and you're giving this one person way too much "power" by becoming so concerned over what they said! I'd say their words are more a reflection of THEIR own soul, not yours. What kind of person tells others they are "ugly"? Perhaps a jealous person? A person who for some reason needs to hurt others, try to reduce them somehow, to try to feel better about themselves? Now THERE is the "ugly" person! :)

Answer 5

Why is this in the EDUCATION section?

From the top...

Being happy and healthy are the first two steps to being good looking. If you're smiling, are happy, that's the first step. "Healthy" covers stuff like skin, obesity, etc.

Then you gotta fit in. Do you wear bowling shoes to weddings, or gym shorts and flip-flops to graduations? Take a look around, you and make sure your appearance is what it should be for every occasion.

Tim

Answer 6

i dont no ppl use to do that to me but i just had to tell my self f*ck those ppl wo think im ugly i no im sexy!!so u should do the same!!

Answer 7

ur only as ugly or beautiful as u believe.
what u think of ur self is all that matters

Answer 8

Do you have a picture?
Or myspace with pictures?

i can tell you the truth.

im not joshing you pal

if your interested in my judgment

its

myspace.com/purplesyrup7

Answer 9

Send me a photo and i will tell you =)

Answer 10

I dunno I can't see you!!