Some popular girls at my school keep bothering me they think I can't fight but the last popular girl I got in a fight with I smacked her so hard her mom was about to press charges against me should I fool these girls the next time they try to fight me so they know I really can fight?
2006-10-14 03:43:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's not if you are good at fighting or if you win it is are you willing to stick up for yourself. YOu are angry enough. use that anger don't pick up weapons that is to much of a risk cuz you think it is bad at school I have been to juvie and those girls in there are a million times more hard core then those preps. Don't put your self in that situation. You can win and as long as you show who you are they will back of. never under estamate yourself keep telling yourself that you are the best fighter and you will win. the more you say it then you win start to believe it. and then you will win. Self trust that's it you can do. much love gurl
2006-10-14 07:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had the same problem when I was in school. It's a vicious circle. You fight one girl, and then the rest of the girls want to test you and see if they can beat you. It never ends, just keep going on and on. Try to nip in the bud by having mom pick you and drop you off at school. Perhaps, you and your mother could go and have a chat with the main culprits mother. I know from experience that it is harder than it sounds to just try and walk away. I had girls hit me from behind when I tried to walk away. So, I know how it can be. Ultimately, if the school can not help, mom can get through to the other girls mom, you may have to fight just to protect yourself. Try hard not to. But, sometimes you just can't avoid it. As an adult I hate to tell a child to fight. But, I was in this situation and know how impossible it can be. I wish you well sweetie. I know it's hard.
2006-10-14 10:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by lilmisstickletoo 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
See i like Ur swagger I'm the same way but the only thing is that i am 1 of the popular girls but no 1 messes with me cuz i got that type of respect.
2006-10-14 10:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by lexy478 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no be the bigger woman and walk away and tell a teacher. fighting solves nothing. it makes you look like a childish fool dont do it grow up. worry about your studies and less on what others think
2006-10-14 10:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you should rise above them and let them think you cant fight. So what if they do think that? you know that you can!. They are just silly girls who want to fight for something stupid. You should just carry on having fun and ignore them girls, there is nothing good in fighting anyway.
2006-10-14 10:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you know what it means to act like a lady? Girls who fight are low class and stupid. Get some smart comebacks and fight them with words not your fists.
2006-10-14 10:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
why dont you just stay away from them and quit stressing..your making things a lot worse then they really are...just ignore the lil girls and theyll find someone else to bother...i dont think t hey want to fight you at all they just like to get you mad so let it go and let them know it doesnt bother you...goodluck
2006-10-14 10:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can use your brain instead of your fists to solve issues too!!!!
It actually can work in your favor with both your elders and peers. It requires more work, but the results are more satisfying.
2006-10-14 11:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Donna D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about those popular girls. next time tell a teacher or something. and don't let those girls get to your head because for all we know, they could be jealous.
2006-10-14 11:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate Lover♥ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I KNOW HOW U FEEL BUT U SHOULD B SMARTER THAN THOSE GIRLS AND IF U KNOW U CAN KICK THEIR ***, JUST WAIT 4 THE RIGHT MOMENT AND FACE ONE OF THEM WHEN SHE`S ALONE AND SHE WON`T DO A THING I BET.
2006-10-14 12:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋