i mett this lovely girl when i went clubbin and she gave me her number, we have bin txtin a little bit but she is a bit blunt, and ive mett her 2 times and it fills like she is ignorin me a little when we meet, shes either playin hard 2 get or just wants 2 be a freind i just really cant tell
2006-10-14 03:23:45 · 9 answers · asked by Romeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My initial reaction was "Of course, dummy."
Then, I fell back on personal experience. There was a cute girl who worked at a bowling alley near my house several years back. I went with this friend of mine bowling every Friday night, and he suggested to this girl that her and I should go out, because I guess she had professed interest in me to my friend at one time.
The following Sunday, I went to the alley and bowled a little bit. She was working at the bar that night. Later on in the evening, I made my way over the bar to chat with her. Since business was slow, her and I chatted for about two hours. The place was about to close, so she grabbed a piece of paper behind the bar and wrote her number on it. She placed it in front of me. I then wrote my number on a napkin and gave it to her.
We talked on the phone the next night, and we talked about this, that, and the other. I told her I was 22 (which I was at the time). She said that sounded a little young (she was about 28), but the conversation had continued to go well. The next conversation, she seemed to be more aloof. I asked if she could go out the next night, and she accepted.
The next night came along, she calls me up at the last minute, and says a friend of hers was rushed to the hospital and that she couldn't hang out. She sounded sincere and was apologetic.
The next Friday night at the bowling alley, she completely ignored me. I went over to talk to her, and she was very short with me. She never called me again after that.
I believe that my age was the factor, but you just never know.
Take what you will from my story, but I wouldn't obsess over this girl if I were you. That's just hindsight being 20-20 for me.
2006-10-14 06:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by stevis78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone likes me, I don't have to ask someone else if they like me. I know because they show it, they tell me, etc.
but then again I don't like women that play "hard to get." If they are playing, then I stay away from them, because I want a serious, honest relationship! Playing hard to get is a form of acting that is lying too. I don't like for my feelings to be played with.
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2006-10-14 10:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she at the most just wants to be your friend, but I'm guessing that more likely she is not really attracted to you even as a friend. I recommend you move on as you really want someone who wants you as much as you want them. Good luck!
2006-10-14 10:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by millynator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls are playing hard to get ,but if she is toying with your feelings you might better off to look at other nicer girls .It's not worth your time to get your feelings hurt by someone that just toys around
2006-10-14 10:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes u. girls have a special way of showing that they are crushing. in this case, she pretends not to like you and to be blunt.
2006-10-14 10:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by nicce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her wait a while before you ask her out
2006-10-14 10:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably she is just wanting to be friends.. but if you keep texting her and talking to her and all that stuff, something will most likely evolve from that!!
2006-10-14 10:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think she likes you
2006-10-14 10:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she dosent
2006-10-14 10:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋