if u dont like grls but boys nd u dont like this wat can you do to change it?
2006-10-14 03:14:47 · 19 answers · asked by Benjamin W 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
hiya
you dont need to change how you feel do what makes you happy not everyone else
if your gay good on you
but if you dont like it talk to your doctor or try to find a group online there is help out there
all the best and good luck hunny :o)
2006-10-14 05:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the problem at the moment. (I support you, not accuse you.)
Learn to love yourself for who you are, and when you've managed that, you'll be able to find someone to love - whether it's a man or woman, this still applies.
If you are gay, learn to accept it (not easy -especially if you have homophobic influences around you). You are still as good as anyone else, there is nothing wrong with being gay - despite what some twisted fools will say in answer to your question.
Most of all, do not spend your life denying what you are - or you will never be happy, and you may cause distress to many others along the way.
2006-10-14 03:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Glenn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may't be born to be any specific way. not something is thoroughly genetic. there is an environmental effect. Even in the womb the ambience has an impact which isn't thoroughly by way of genetic of the youngster. the ambience of the womb must be one element that reasons people to be lesbian whether that's not in all probability a element in being gay. If homosexuality became thoroughly genetic MZ twins could the two be the two gay or the two immediately. you may tell how lots androgens you have been uncovered to prenatally by using the ratio between your 2d and fourth hands on your precise hand. Many have been uncovered to androgens who have not became out to be gay. There are remedies for babies who had too lots androgen exposure. This project is extra complexed than you think of. I additionally think of that in the event that they have been born that way we might see signs and indicators of homosexuality before and homosexuality could nonetheless be seen a affliction.
2016-10-16 04:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by belfast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should focus on changing how you feel about being gay, not changing being gay. It is probably very uncomfortable for you now, but you should find out about other gay people in your area. Maybe there is a support group you can go to. Or at least try to meet some gay friends. That will help you see that gay people are normal people just like everyone else, and you can begin to feel more comfortable with your sexual orientation.
2006-10-14 03:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is finding a way to be happy the way you are as you are. There are a lot of people who may tell you that you can magically change your orientation but that can lead to hitting your head against a brick wall and a lot of heartache. My ex is a gay man and struggled with his sexuality for years going through some very dark times...
Find people who can be of support to you and give you advice on how they handled the situation and who will give you an even handed view. It is ok to be who you are...love yourself first and foremost. That is the best advice anyone can give.
2006-10-14 03:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start to hang around more gay people, or gay-friendly people for a while until you feel you can come out and accept it as being just as ordinary as being straight.
After a while, hopefully you will find the confidence to be who you are around everyone.
2006-10-14 08:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by harry_the_monk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
judging by your words girls n boys im guessing your young.n do you know lots of people go through this when young.you get to know same sex people better coz you mix with them more.dont worry this will pass and if not then youll be of an age to cope with it.surely to try n portray something youre not would make you far more unhappier.youll be ok kid ,you will
2006-10-14 03:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consider having a sex change. That way you could then fancy the opposite sex without fear of recrimination. problem solved. ;o)
Seriously though, you are what you are and even if you try to work against your own feelings, you will only bring yourself down more and more.
You could try dating girls in an attempt to change how you feel, but in the end, if you re destined to be gay, YOU need to combat any prejudice you have against the idea.
2006-10-14 03:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Nothing much unless you are prepared to go against your nature and supress your instincts.
Councelling may help but it won't stop you being gay!
2006-10-14 03:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can decide to not fantisize about men. but being (or thinking thoughs about) homosexuality is very natural ans you shouldn't be ashamed. and if you think you are attracted to men, then find a boyfriend. there's nothing to not like about it. i mean, it could if you take it up the chauff, but all you have to do is to do things in an isolated area.
2006-10-14 04:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by sonic_knx 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋