Lately my best friend's daughter has been talking to me so rude and has accused my son of stealing $60.00 from her and treats my 15yr old daughter like CRAP when they are supposibly "BEST FRIENDS" but is too busy with her other friend. The daughters mother does nothing!! The mother says, "oh there are two sides to a pancake." and "that she never takes sides when it comes to the kids." but yet has her daughter call me up last night to say since i was rude to her i'm not welcome in their house anymore,... instead of the mother calling me to ask what happened she took her daughters side and told her daughter to call me. These are the people i gave rides to when their car, clean their house when they are too busy, give their grandmother rides to bank, store, computer classes. Let them stay at my house when they had no place to go, feed them, and have bent over backwards to be nothing but nice to. We have been friends for eight years I'm thinking its time to end the one sided friendship
2006-10-14 02:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by Majenta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how about reporting your friend who must have multiple personalities to Yahoo Answers? you figured out she has 2 log ins too right? report her for point gaming and say that she has the 2 log ins and is giving her other id all best answers!
then get rid of her! she is obviously nuts if she is constantly posting questions on here asking what to do about you, and your family!
2006-10-16 04:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you have been used bigtime! Back out of this so called friendship and let the moochers go somewhere else. A real friendship give respect for all involved. Think: what am I getting from this relationship? Sounds like it' a big NOTHING. Make some new friends. These folks will never give you equal respect. Godloveya.
2006-10-14 02:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are to remain friends with your friend, then you all will have to overlook the differences with your children. I would not be friends with anyone who did not respect me or treat my children unfairly. Did you look at both sides of the pancake? I'd move on, but with love, no need to start a big fuss, just get busy.
2006-10-14 02:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are appropriate acquaintances for lady? while you're quite her appropriate chum, then you definately could desire to assert something. in simple terms tell her which you're feeling such as you are able to not do something or bypass everywhere with in simple terms her and you're ill of it, and would not she even word how this guy is attempting to monopolize her time? tell her that she's had different bf's and it wasn't like that and he or she knows of it wasn't and which you're actually in simple terms feeling quite utilized by utilising her and especiall her bf because of the fact all she seems to care approximately now's utilising you to get to him and ignoring you after utilising you so as that she can in basic terms pay interest to him. tell her that it quite is in simple terms user-friendly rude and you will't believed how she has replaced pondering she has been your appropriate chum for over 6 years. tell her which you think of you deserve a sprint greater admire that what she's been supplying you with and that even nevertheless you quite blame her boyfriend for it, you apart from mght blame her because of the fact she has allowed it to bypass on and allowed it to proceed. tell her that the way she has been treating you isn't the way that 'appropriate acquaintances' take care of one yet another and which you have have been given tried to maintain quiet approximately it, yet which you in simple terms can not take it any further, so except she needs to actual spend a while with in simple terms YOU and stop along with her bf in each little thing you do, then she needs to stop texting you again working whilst she needs to work out him. tell her that she'll could desire to discover somebody else to apply and forget approximately, if she can't look to convey herself to try this. tell her that that's an argument approximately courtesy and friendship and the shortcoming thereof. tell her which you think of your bf/gf could desire to convey out the appropriate in you and make you a greater effectual guy or woman, yet you're actually not seeing it occurring with Bozo Bob here. (LOL) get up and be a chum! Be trustworthy and be waiting because of the fact this could (and probable will) harm her emotions some, yet as quickly as she quite thinks approximately it, she can see which you're top. If she would not then i assume this could be a clean crossroad to your 'friendship.'
2016-11-28 04:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by gyllenband 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "friend" is not a friend. She is a user. She no longer needs a ride or a place to stay, so she no longer has any use for you. Its over. Please don't allow yourself to be a door mat. You seem like a genuinely nice and caring person. You deserve a lot better.
2006-10-14 02:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't know a truly good friendship until they lose it. I say lose them as friends. They're users and not appreciative of the things you've done for them. Maybe you have enabled them to be dependent on your generosity. Time to cut them loose.
2006-10-14 02:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you were never friends if she knows her daughter is doing these things and hasn't pulled her into line then she hates you too probably never really thought of you as a friend and used you if you look closer she probably already found another sucker ill be your friend
2006-10-14 02:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by raghie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha. The precedent has been set and that rude behavior is not going to change. It's time to say "Hasta la vista, baby."
2006-10-14 02:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by The Baron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like their user friendly. I would say good bye! And stand your ground, not even the littlest favor.
2006-10-14 02:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Connie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, to them you are a footstool, don't have anything to do with them. You haven't been friends for 8 years you have been a dupe for them to leech off of.
Don't talk to them or allow your daughter to talk to them. Total cuttoff from them is best.
2006-10-14 02:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Meow the cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋