My wife of 33 years I think is going through the change she tells me she don't like me the better I am to here the worser she treats me she take no medicine any women out there had similar problems or can tell me what to do ouhter than wait time is running out for me Thanks
2006-10-14 02:19:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do you mean by "the better I am to her" ? Do you help her around the house, with the kids (if you have any at home), show her you love her by bringing her flowers once in a while, etc?
Maybe she feels that you are just taking her for granted and you need to spice up the marriage a bit!
2006-10-14 02:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your question....... i have just gone through the change and i took nothing from the doctor.......all women are different and affects them different ways, what i can tell you is this we need a lot of TLC and someone who is understanding and after 33yrs its about time you gave her this. it wont last for ever mine was over in 12months and i feel as if i have been re born again. My advise to you stop whinning and take another look at your wife and thank god you have a wife who has stayed with you for 33yrs because if you were mine i would have left your sorry butt yrs ago, sorry to be so blunt but my ex was just like you and i left him straight after i got over it and never looked back so if you dont want that shape up or ship out and start treating her right
2006-10-14 10:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife is pretty young to be going through the change. There is something else going on, not the "change". I'm 51 and it started for me in my middle 40's. Medication helped, but the mood swings are hard to deal with at times. But you deal with them. Sounds to me that your wife is not happy. Best to talk to her. Open communication is very important right now if you want to save your marriage. I truly do not believe this is the change of life. Best to get to the bottom of your problems in the marriage.
2006-10-14 14:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay she has been your wife for 33 years and you haven't learned anything about her yet...too bad you were MIA during all those years. she is going thru a rough patch and all you have to say is time is running out for you. I'm surprised she still wants to be with you "mister you better get it together or I'm gone". too bad men don't have to go thru this they would be more understanding. take some time with her, if she starts to argue calmly walk into another room. try giving her a massage run her bath water; you might want to get in with her. you just have to make her fee special because during this time women are starting to feel unwanted and unattractive. lets be proactive about this situation.
2006-10-14 10:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 33 years you say time is running out for you, I'm not surprised she treats you badlyYou've got a problem Buster and it's not your wife.
2006-10-14 09:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should read up on it a little and see what kind of things your wife is actually going thru right now. It's terrible to feel happy one moment and depressed or agitated the next. I just think if you read up on it you may just realize that she can't help by what she's feeling right now and not to take it to personally. She also should see her doctor to discuss these things and he could be of some help to ease what she's going thru.
2006-10-14 09:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick with it she will get better. Get some Chloette and let her eat some times that takes care of mood swings for me.
2006-10-14 09:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by fonda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..take a chill pill...its their in a woman's hormones..they go by the tide..sometimes up & sometmes dwn.
u gotta divert her attention...take her out by her a gift..take her for a candlit dinner...hey loosen those harmones pal!!
2006-10-14 09:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by gors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋