Please be patient to read this, guys......
I am a first year student (college). I am from Quezon City I decided to study hre in Cebu. This place was very strange during my first two months even when I already have friends. One day, I could freshly remember, it was our nstp session, the debating team of our school conducted the whole session by a debate, of course. When it was already going on, I felt so bored, feeling sleepy. But, there was this one member who have caught my attention. I've already been interested when I heard her voice. And, oh, she's a very charming lady. And eversince that day, I've never forgotten her face. I was attracted to her. But, the problem is she's already 2nd yr. I could only see her twice to thrice a week. And everytime we meet, she's always with her friends so I could not have the opportunity to talk to her. I could hardly sleep since the day I met her. Do you think I'm in love with her? Please, I need your help. Shall I start courting her? But, how?
2006-10-14 02:08:27 · 8 answers · asked by jann kyle_upvcc 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I don't think you're stupid or a coward. I would say you have a crush on this woman - as you don't know her, it would be hard to imagine you are in love with her.
I am sure you could find out her name - if you don't know it already. Then you could send her an e-mail (I'm sure your college has standard e-mail addresses (e.g. first name.surname@...). Just don't go overboard and frighten her off!
If you wanted to talk to say anything at all to her, you could always ask the time or ask where something is - it wouldn't matter then that there are other people around. It would also break the ice a little and if you had asked previously where something was, then when you saw her the next time, you could say in passing "Thanks for the instructions - they were great - found it in no time blah blah blah I owe you a coffee for your help -I'd have been stuck without you"
Get the picture?
Good luck
2006-10-14 02:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hahaha no dude absolutely you are not in love cause you don't even know her more than her friends anyway I believe you're infatuated or you have a big crush on her haha I'm also a freshmen and a fellow filipino and we have a quite close situation, mine is I always get the chance to see her in the mrt then one day I tried to ask her name but she didn't tell me the 2nd time she was the one who told it to me, but i still haven't got her no. then by the time I found out that my friend has connections to her school then i ask her cel. no then we became friends and now we are calling and texting each other and sometimes we go out.. I pray that you would also get the chance to know your girl... Actually its my first time to talk to a stranger I like haha and it came out fine so try it also..
Just be yourself dude, and always bring your sense of humor cause its really a big factor to make a girl laugh, just don't give up if you really like her. And another thing age doesn't matter haha so don't mind whatever other people say.
2006-10-14 09:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Aljohn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have felt a little love. That is good. Don't narrow your options so quickly. If you can catch her eye, wave to her. Have a plan, if you talk to her. Tell her that you'd like to spend time with her and ask her if she will do something with you. It could be a cup of coffee or whatever. If she agrees, get her number. Take her out for dinner somewhere, then to a club and go dancing. After a few dances, have a slow dance with her. See if she wants to kiss. There are more women then men. You are not in love yet, so keep looking around...try to meet different girls. You could wait around forever thinking about just this one.
2006-10-14 09:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by FreddyBoy1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heres what you should do...first always make eye contact whenever you see each other i really mean everytime.Look as if like you've seen an angel...it always involves emotion....then a lil' smile on your face to greet her.This way your already acknowledging her that theres something special in her that you like...give her always your sweetest smile this will flatter her a lil'.But you should keep your perception at a high level so you'll know her cues wether shes getting your hints or not.Then you can ask her to help you find the library coz your new....i know its a cliche' but it'll work...then you can ask her name and the process will follow...Being a gentleman is a must...
2006-10-14 09:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its simply an attraction. This is not love. Just go and talk to her, make her good friend of your's. Dont bother about the bodies around.
2006-10-14 09:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by dvishwas 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You are infutuated with her. BIG difference! As far as talking to her, just talk to her! Talk about school or the debate. She's a person with feelings, and she is not going to be a jerk to you so don't worry about it!
2006-10-14 12:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude you are IN LOVE
and this love may make life hard for you , you should talk to her any way coz love isnt somthing from one side be sure that she has the same feeling
do not let her fly catch her
2006-10-14 09:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by death_dew 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats LOVE already ... you probably just like her A LOT now... get to know her first. Just have to courage to approach her ... then youll see if you'll fall in love ...
dont mistake love from infatuation...
2006-10-14 09:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by red_hac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋