i have a group of friends (5 of them) .. i only found out recently that one of them had gotten engaged and did not invite me ... i was quite upset as i tght we are quite close (we were schoolmates and tries to make effort meet once in a while). the rest did not bother to update me or anything.. i only found out from an aquaiintance when she ask why i wasnt dere...
i was thinking like when i have my engagement or wedding reception .. i will invite all 4 of them to my event... its to show that hey im not as petty as them about things.. or should i just not invite them at all
which will the "revenge" work??
or any other suggestions.
i need help thanks
2006-10-14 02:04:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i know this revenge this sounds a bit childish..but i really am very upset.. oh well life goes on.thanks for yr advices
2006-10-14 02:25:52 · update #1
invite them so you can get their gifts. that is relly really rude what she did
2006-10-14 02:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge does nothing for the soul. It only brings you down to the same level as your "so called friend". I don't think you want to be at that level, do you?? Forget about it and move on. Just realize she's not who you thought she was and find a new friend. Life is too short to waste on people like this.
2006-10-14 07:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking you need revenge is petty, get on with your life.
If not being invited to something makes you feel the need for revenge then you have a lot of growing up to do.
2006-10-14 02:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good way to get revenge, because it never works. If she didn't invite you, what makes you think she'll care if you don't invite her.
Also, have you considered the possibility that you were supposed to have been invited but something happened to cause you not to get the invitation.?
2006-10-17 11:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never a good idea, I sugget what you do is talk to your friend about the situation. It could be your invitation was overlooked, or perhaps it was held up in the mail. I hope my answer helps you.
2006-10-14 02:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing honestly I would be cut up about that. But life goes on & your wedding day is supposed to be a special day to remember, Do you really want to remember those 4 faces at your wedding? Don't wreck it for yourself. But then again can you forgive & forget? Good luck
2006-10-14 02:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What 4 revenge.Just invite them n u can earn some Ang Bow from them.That a good idea right?
2006-10-14 02:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 08:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never the right answer - if you're truly hurt as it sounds like you are then you need to respectfully tell your friend exactly that. You'll be in my prayers - good luck.
2006-10-14 02:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Blessed_One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't get back on your friend! Maybe something happened, or even if she didn't want to invite you, you should still be polite, and invite her.
2006-10-14 02:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you thought u were close...how abt the other side?did she consider u as ur best Friend as well?If yes,she would have called u for sure..so that means she really didn't consider u her best Friend.
But , there are times in one's life that they forget abt people to call but they always think of them...i suggest u call her and congratulate her-she will feel so bad..and that would satisfy ur heart to have made her feel so damn guilty!!
Take care!
2006-10-14 02:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by gors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋