There is this guy in my class who likes me, but i dont like him. my class is trying so hard to get me to hook up with him. I have already said no a million or so times and they wont listen! He wants to ask me out soon, and they all say i broke his heart by saying no. He was always mean to me and i have alreday apologised to him. The other problem is that i like a guy in my class, but i dont kno whether he likes me. I dont want to talk to him tho. Or write to him. What should i do with both problems? Please help!
2006-10-14 01:45:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am in 8th grade and 4 the next 2 weeks i have 2 work with him which i dont like and he thinks i am getting together with him. my entire class hate me now.
2006-10-20 19:10:44 · update #1
see the rock is hard but cheese is soft
2006-10-21 17:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you babe?
I'm assuming extremely young, based on your post...
Which is fine BTW :)
Ok......I'll try and answer this keeping in mind your age.... (otherwise my response might be a little, er....'blunt' LOL)
1. In the real 'adult' world, we would deem it incredibly immature for a whole class to try and 'hook up' 2 ppl, especially when one (you) have repeated you are not interested.
But because you're all young....perhaps divert the attention to someone else?
Say hey what about Mister X and Missus Y? They would be SOOO cute together!!!
2. If he does ask you out soon, say to him something like 'Im sorry but I onyl like you as a friend'
3. LOL babe dont worry, you did not 'break his heart', I promise you that. Keep in mind you are children, not romantically involved adults! Your friends are being twits!
4. He was always mean to you you say - say this to your friends! Say 'He is a jerk as if he is good enough for me! No way is he good enough!'
That should make them shuddup LOL
5. You gotta be brave honey - you wont know how that other guy feels unless you communicate with him in some way.
Start small...say hi to him one day. Another day maybe ask how hes going.
And hey if you two start going out then your friends will forget about that other jerk!
Hope that helped babe....have a great day and goodluck with it all! MWA!
2006-10-14 02:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by meeeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang u must be super hottttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or something lol
seriiously if u dont like the 1 guy then u should find him alone (when people are around he might get imbarresed) and tell him nicely that "i dont have feelings for u (in a serious tone)"
now prolbem #1 is fixed go up to the second guy and tell him u like him
tips:write a letter to the second guy or ask a well trusted friend to tell him u like him (that shouldn't be hard since ur whole class is trying to get u 2 hooked up)
2006-10-14 01:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by some,random,guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to reject the guy who likes you to show that you are open for relationships. But you must say something along the lines of "Better if we're JUST friends." and nothing like "I'm not ready for a relationship." or "I'm not looking for anything." or "Not at the moment." Because if word gets around, the guy you like might think you are totally uninterested in anybody.
Flirt with the guy you like. Just to show him you've got attraction towards him.
Are you sure the guy who likes you is just teasingly flirty with you and not mean?
If you gotta break it, you gotta break it. Either you break his heart early or you go through the whole thing (breaking your own heart) and then eventually end it off because you've finally realize "who gives?"
2006-10-14 01:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wat u need to do about the guy who likes u is to tell him hey look i don't like u that way and all these people needs to stop trying to hook us up. And especially if he was mean to u tell him no. the guy u like in ur class is talk to him. get to no him a little. write him a little bit.. just get a little courage. maybe if he shows interest (even if he doesn't) ask him out or have a friend ask him out for u. that's the best i can tell ya.
2006-10-21 10:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by cougarcub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say No! You may be the "baddy" for a couple of days but soon enough they will find something more interest for them to focus on.
tell people who you fancy cause when he finds out he might think differently about you i.e he likes you too!
believe this is happened to me sooo many times and im only 13.
i fancied this guy for ages and didnt tell anyone but another girl fancied him, told everyone and he went out with her.
try it.. whats the worst that can happen?
2006-10-14 01:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are more emotional than girls, it might be hard to see, but, they are more affected by everyday things than girls are. this is why alot of them are assholes.
if you really want to get rid of him, go out with the guy you like. then he will leave you alone.
if he was mean to you, and now he likes you, thats cool cuz now he really likes you and you must have become more attractive.
if everyone is telling you to go out with him and you dont want to, them tell them to **** off and tell them that if they like him so much then why dont they go blow him (the guys too)
dont let your peers control you into doing stupid things. it can lead to disasters.
if you like that other guy, then you should move in on him b4 some other **** does.
even gay guys cant resist a loving girl... well they can but not always.
2006-10-14 02:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by impossiblestrength 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no to going out with the guy that likes you because you don't have to say yes. And for the guy that you like try to talk to him and yes i know it's hard to talk to someone you like, It's hard for me to, But he usually comes up to me. Any way just talk to him or else you are never going to know if he likes you. And if you do decide to talk to him just flirt.Good Luck!!!
2006-10-14 02:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Customise a t-shirt that says will you go out with me (name of guy u like). Then you don't actually have to say do you wanna go out and be all shy. If he says yes then you go out with him and rhe other guy shold lay off. You should try to put the other guy off you , find out what he like about you and then u'll know how to make him dislike you.
hope that helps
2006-10-14 01:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Astrid C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the **** do they mean by you broke his heart?? You said no so it is final. just bugg him off. And for the other guy.. Go make friendship with him.
Take Care.
2006-10-14 02:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the boy that they are better people for him and make friends with the guy u like
2006-10-14 06:33:00 · answer #11 · answered by Solar Sarab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋