It is a fact to me that one woman or man can love two people at the same time. I am not taking cheap flings, but sometimes another person crosses your path and it is your soul mate . Very few people have this real passion, attraction. I am not talking morals here. I am talking reality. Secret desire, passion, lots of eina. so many people are stuck in dead realtionships.........but it is the right thing to do. Others love their partners as well as the other man/woman.
2006-10-14 01:31:12 · 14 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
people are stupid now adays. it's true, you can have an attraction or strong feelings for 2 people at the same time. but here's the thing that even you know is true: no matter how many people you are attracted to or swooning over, there will always be one who really owns your heart
2006-10-14 01:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by sweetlover8814 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can love two people as soul mates. Maybe what you're talking about is when you have a husband but another man that u r attracted to gets your attention "Why not have them both?" Because u love your husband and the other man is just physic. Say a man loves two women. The women would not be getting his full and undivided attention. That is definitely a relationship that one would not be happy in. If you have two people, you could be holding one of them back from true love. What if one of your two people decide they want another and another? That would turn out to be a mess. No one would be faithful. Monogamy is the right and only way.
2006-10-14 09:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One cannot love 2people at the same time!
when u say love u say supreme dedication,totally,to only one person!
What meaning has this word-love,for u?I don't think u 've ever known it..Love is when u find your SOUL MATE,YOUR HALF.
I learned at school that anything in this world can have only 2 halfs.NOT 3 or 4 or 5.that is why it is called half.
In love,one of the half is u and the other the one who completes u,and together u become a whole.
2 become 1.
it's wrong to say that 3 become 1.
i don't think u talk about love,u talk here about something totally different,like sex.
Sex/sexuallity IS NOT THE SAME WITH love.
u're confused!
2006-10-14 08:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by floricica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with you that you can love two people at the same time. But have you ever thought that you are not giving all of yourself to those people. It seems to me that when you say that you love two peole you are not giving all of yourself to them. You are reserving part of yourself for the other person. There are things that you can express or do with one of them that you can't do with the other, so you hold back things from that one person to give to the other. That is not being fair to anyone in the situation because eventually you will have to make a choice and you will be stuck with the hardest decision.
2006-10-14 09:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by arieal g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got an agenda.
Sure, you *can* love more than one simultaneously, but the chances of that working out long-term are very poor. Issues of jealousy, STDs, pregnancy, (parenting) etc. make it a bad choice.
Use your HEAD and not yer lust. Try: "27 ways to know if you've found the right relationship for you" and pick ONE!
"Dead" relationships can be rekindled using techniques at www.marriagebuilders.com
Love is a VERB, not something you passively have or don't have.
Choose to do the right thing.
(morals--darn, how awful--roll eyes. That type of thinking says it's okay to have affairs, too--NOT!)
2006-10-14 08:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by LadyE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats true nowdays..but most people can't handle or deal with two men/women but to be honest with you it never turns out right at the end...cuz if you love them both and one of them ends a relationship with you ...u will be heartbroken yet u don't notice that the other guy/ girl is around and you still have an relationship...ur mind will be else where and your to busy healing ur wound and no more a attention for your other partner and than he/she feels it's going no where so they choose to end it also but that makes betters worse cuz you can't leave ur life alone and hurt by more than one person...thats why people stick with one and ONly so they protect there heart from pain and sickness so they don't need to deal with more than two love.
So hope i answered ur question
Smile bye
2006-10-14 08:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can move mountains, as they say. Anything can happen like when you are in loved, a real love? but then you happen to know another person, another love blossoms. So a person can love two people at one time! I believed it is not the right thing to do esp. when you have a family and for that matter, being a husband and wife, it is a supreme duty to preserve the sanctity of marriage...
2006-10-14 08:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by dodadz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible very much so,but in a different way than you might.Say like my dad,he lost his second wife to death,and when he met his third wife,he was confused about it,but eventually learned to accept it.However,when you are in love with someone as you say you are,there is NO ROOM for loving another the same way!
2006-10-14 08:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I accept that one can love two people at the same time ... why not ... i like all fruits but one of them i like more than others
2006-10-14 08:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by NAUDIA B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you can love two people at the same time well you think you can but really you 're not in love wih either of them if you love two . If you do really love someone you won't love two. If you do then you don't love either of them .Sorry if I don't make sence !
2006-10-14 08:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by La parisienne ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋