2006-10-14 01:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by subodh g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to begin with, changing your situation isn't going to make you happy..you first have to change yourself..you will not find someone who is going to MAKE you happy..that is putting a lot of reponsibilites on someone, to make you happy..if you want to change your life, do it without anyone else..be by yourself and get to know yourself..all you will be doing if you think that someone else can make you happy, is carring the bag that you took from the other relationship with you to the next one..you can go across the world, live in a different country, live a different life style, but if you don't change your mind about yourself, the baggage goes with you..blessings
2006-10-14 01:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by connie l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Nothing is so underhanded as scouting about for a new mate while still dangling your current mate on a string. You owe them the chance to change their life too if they want. You are obviously not happy in your current relationship so do the honorable thing and tell your partner that you are looking around for someone new. Come on, how would you like to be the 'bird in the hand' while your partner is out beating the bushes to find a new bird. You are being a user!
2006-10-14 09:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by faye n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? It's always nice to know that there are women out there that just want to quit. The man that you married has drinking problems, gambling debts, other addictions? He treats you like crap? If not, why is it a need to move on? Consider all of the implications involved with moving on. I find it difficult to think that women (and men) feel the need to move on rather than talking abou there marriage and changing things that may be wrong.
2006-10-14 08:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry me and I'll put a change in your life. You won't know what the hell hit you.
2006-10-14 08:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need married to change your life. Why you don't have child?
2006-10-14 08:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by caramelle2d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the person that you're married to now...if he/she wants a divorce as well, FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS...
2006-10-14 08:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by kosh.was.here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't forget to mention this to your wife!!!!!
2006-10-14 08:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by diane c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ABOUT YOUR THIS WIFE. WHETHER SHE ALSO WANTS DIVORCE. IF IT IS PLEASE GO AHEAD.
2006-10-14 08:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋