there is a guy in my college who is two years older than me.i like him very much.but he always avoid me ,may be because i am overweight .i am unable to avert my eyes from him .i'm feeling helpless.
2006-10-14 00:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by Priya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on...he probably doesn't like you.
2006-10-14 00:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Doug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could u give more info? Are u friends with this guy? Did he always avoid u or is it something recent? Guys can be real jerks, i found out myself, no matter what u look like or do, especially when they know u care abt them...Be strong girl!!! Dont a let a guy make u feel bad!!! If someone doesnt like u, then just let it go. It's hard I know, it happened to me recently...U need to move on!! Learn to be independent and mostly don't let go of ur self-confidence and self-esteem!!! In time u'll learn that having a crush on someone is part of life and it'll happen that u'll fall on the wrong guy...U'll have to learn to accept it and move on.
U can email me..with more details I might be able to advise you.
2006-10-14 00:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the only guy at your college? If he avoids you, ignore him. You are only helpless if you allow yourself to be. Get out there into the activities that interest you, make friends, and when the time is right you'll find someone who is interested in you for who you are. When you're tempted to look at this loser, imagine him with a bald head, a beer gut, a few teeth missing, and snot running down his face.
2006-10-14 01:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is avoiding you, it simply means he does not want you. That he is avoiding you becoz of your weight, is your presumption which may not be correct !
One sided relationships always are doomed, actually they never exist. Relationship has to be both sided !!
If you want to help yourself:
1. Decide that you dont want to be a begger and you have some self respect.
2. Keep away from him for some time. If by any chance he likes you, he'll come to you.
3. keeping away from him will also give time for you to analyse your feelings.
4. develop a hobby to keep your eyes from averting to him.
2006-10-14 01:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Explore_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about all of the good things about yourself, get yourself some confidence, and Go ask him out yourself!!
2006-10-14 00:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by AngieandCeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Priya r u from India? CHENNAI?. Love is not happening on seeing our outer body it depents on mental feeling. So don't worry that you are fat. But try to talk with him directly or thro' any one of their friends. And find his cell number and give SMS and extract your desire to him decently. wait and see what is happening. My e-mail is RECYCLEPAPER2004@YAHOO.COM.
2006-10-14 00:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not stupid are you? Let go and find someone who likes you. It hurts and hard to do but its the best thing to do
2006-10-14 00:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by rosamia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him
2006-10-14 00:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋