I asked out one of my best friends - big mistake. She was cool with it, and I wasn't and proceeded to act really clingy. I then realised that I was doing this and apologised to her for acting all weird, but really laboured the point and ended up constantly apologising for my stupid behaviour. This has clearly annoyed the hell out of her, and now she is being quite stand-off-ish towards me. I don't want her to think I'm a creep, I just want things to be back to how they were, but I think the trust we had between us isn't there anymore. I can't appologise again though because I think she will probably kill me if I do that!!! Help!
2006-10-13 23:06:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just act like you did before you asked her out. And don't mention it to her again. We just need to hear that you are sorry one time. More than that is just annoying.
2006-10-13 23:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Toya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, You have to be to the point and tell her how you feel. Quit apologizing it shows a sense of defeat and better yet how much of a ***** you are. Girls are looking for guys that are aggressive and confident.
Things probably wont be like they used to, learn and move on. Figure out somethings yall have in common then use the interests to proceed forward. Good luck
2006-10-14 06:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Financial Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only cry so much. Give her the space she wants and needs. There must be an underlying issue. She needs to deal with her feelings too. and everybody has their own way of doing it. Get on with your life (not to sound cold.) If you cross paths again, you'll both know what to do. Just don't sweat it. Love your friend. Whatever path either of you choose should be your own. Good Luck, my friend.
2006-10-14 06:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by suzuka s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, I have a very good idea, your problem s aboout facing her,
writea letter to her and explain you feelings and the reason why you did the thing, then mention that if she thinks that you should not be forgiven then she should punish you or she should break up your friendship, but you will miss her/him a lot because she/he was special to you and you both are together the best, you nedd her/him and wait for the reply, if everrythong goes right then very good or if she breaks up then, don't go back to her, you did whatever you could you were at fault and you are guilty for it, so assume that god has given you that punishment only.
2006-10-14 06:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by akhil dayal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize and give your friend a big hug. Hugs makes everyone feel better. Story sounds familiar in the same boat but i would prob. b to scared bc you just dont know who is sincere any more or who is deceives.
2006-10-14 06:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by noanswers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be alone for a few days. She has feelings too. Then ask her out to Mcdonald or something n tell her ur really sorry, but you really like her and thats how u feel cuz no one can control ur feelings.
2006-10-14 07:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are correct. girls feel annoyed if boys keep on asking sorry. thus, you start behaving the way you want the relation to be. you be normal and give her sometime to forget it. act and be normal. everything will be fine then.
2006-10-14 07:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jist leave the matter here. itz a bit difficult to gain her trust.
give her some time leave her to herself, n behave like a good fren, act the way u used to b wid her.
2006-10-14 06:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date her and make it up.
2006-10-14 06:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time
2006-10-14 06:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋