2006-10-13 22:44:14 · 21 answers · asked by Drish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you can't trust him or believe anything he has to say then you really don't have a relationship. However, as long as you are ready to put up with it and understand that you can't trust him then have a great life. I would rather have someone that I can trust and put some faith in what they are telling me
2006-10-13 22:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think at sometime we have all told a lie, (although we also say how much we hate 'liars'). I think decide what the lies are, how often he lies, then, and importantly, ask yourself WHY he may be lying. Ask him too. Think about reasons that you may yourself lie. To avoid hurting someone? To stay out of trouble? To avoid arguments?
Maybe your reaction to some of his 'truths', make him feel that the easy way out... is to tell a lie and avoid a dispute. Who knows????? Maybe in fact, some of his 'truths' are things that you cannot accept in the relationship. (He parties too much for you, goes out with his Friends too much?)
I'm not saying that this is the case with you, it's just an idea. I have had some drama queen girl friends that made life miserable for any thing her BF did or said...etc.
Either way, I think his lying is unacceptable and if he is good to you, he must love you, so why not have a "heart to heart" and see if the two of you can find the reason and a solution to his habit of lying.
2006-10-14 05:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea like the rest said, better to get rid of him, cause chronic liars ..well...damn..can't be trusted! Honestly if ya really like the dude, play the russian roulette and talk to him about it....but for the most part, anybody that lies like that has something to hide....and giving everything to you is more like the "diamonds are a girls best friend" and supposed to keep you hush and content while he does whatever it is he does.
2006-10-14 05:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does everything for you, because he's a lying scum bag. He's probably cheating on you too. He just doesn't want u to dump his sorry ***.
Besides, if he lies to you, how can u trust him? And how you can be in a relationship w/o trust? I would just take, take and take everything he has to give. Hell ask him to take you shopping and be the sweetest thing. Then dump him.
2006-10-14 05:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious, Something could be going on behind your back. He might be making you feel secure when in reality that is his whole motive. Lieing leads to other things, if communication and trust is a problem then you need to tell him how you feel.
I remember when I was in a relationship with a girl and me and her started lieing our fcking heads off to each other. In the end she died and I sort of moved on. So as you can see the ending didnt turn out very happy for either of us
2006-10-14 05:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Financial Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel about the lies. It seems like it does matter to you that he lies, but for you what is more important, what he does for you or that you cant trust what he says?
2006-10-14 05:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Obsidian butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need is to trust him...
and consider the lies
if the lies are too often and you cant stand it anymore
then the only thing you should do is broke up with him
2006-10-14 05:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by y_un1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb, girfriend. If he lies now what's next, what can you trust? Trust needs to be 100 percent
2006-10-14 05:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by demac_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there must have a reason why does he lie at you. Try to ask him?? But be ready coz a relationship is nothing without trust and co operation
2006-10-14 05:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hikanuroshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who needs a lover or husband or bf who lies?
Not me, but lie can be various , sometimes for good sometimes not. But maybe you must say him that you love him, but you prefer only true , unimportant - is this true hard or not.
2006-10-14 05:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋